Woman who want to guide

[jhonny9546]

Why would a woman prefer a feminine, fearful, problem-ridden, and ashamed man who doesn't take the lead?

This same type of woman often seeks solutions to his problems, plans trips, and invites him as a guest. She may take on the role of directing him in his career, managing the household, and, of course, "taking care" of him as well. She might focus on "improving" him and solving his problems, even helping him rise in SMV to the point where he surpasses her. For example, a wealthy woman might partner with a regular guy, bring him into her company, and help him become CEO. However, if he presents himself as a mature man who guides her and maintains his own daily routine—rather than accommodating her whims—she may reject him and label him as boring or call him "grandpa."

How many times have you encountered this type of woman in your journey?
Have you understood the underlying causes that lead to these consequences?
In my case, I've met 2 of them, both had incredible family and "social circle" system was ideal to make a family with them, but both suffered of this preference for "broken" men they've had to put back in pieces, and "command".

 

[BaronOfHair]

Why would a woman prefer a feminine, fearful, problem-ridden, and ashamed man who doesn't take the lead?

Because what we instinctively desire and what's actually beneficial for us are frequently not the same

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It's a civil war in Italy...

 

[jhonny9546]

Because what we instinctively desire

What if a woman instinctively desire for this type of man?

It's a civil war in Italy...

 

[jhonny9546]

Maybe this is not the case but I found this video, just looking at the guy, can tell this is a complete nice guy.
This doesn't mean he could be fearful, problem-ridden, and ashamed, but feminine, yes.

 

[BaronOfHair]

What if a woman instinctively desire for this type of man?

As I said, what we instinctively desire often isn't beneficial to us. As men, our instinctive desire is to bone every woman we find physically alluring, without first throwing on protection or screening these women beforehand

If we are wise though, we recognize that our capacity for rational thought and self-possession gives us the power to NOT be slaves to our instincts

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

As I said, what we instinctively desire often isn't beneficial to us. As men, our instinctive desire is to bone every woman we find physically alluring, without first throwing on protection or screening these women beforehand

If we are wise though, we recognize that our capacity for rational thought and self-possession gives us the power to NOT be slaves to our instincts

Wonderfully stated.

I only quoted you to repost

 

[jhonny9546]

As I said, what we instinctively desire often isn't beneficial to us. As men, our instinctive desire is to bone every woman we find physically alluring, without first throwing on protection or screening these women beforehand

If we are wise though, we recognize that our capacity for rational thought and self-possession gives us the power to NOT be slaves to our instincts

This is why I prize "mannerism" more than pure "aestetichs"

Did you get any chance to watch the video?

 

[BaronOfHair]

This is why I prize "mannerism" more than pure "aestetichs"

Remarks like that prove once again that we all need a Tapper in our lives

0:00-1:01, for those moments in which we go into Harding mode

 

[jhonny9546]

Remarks like that prove once again that we all need a Tapper in our lives

0:00-1:01, for those moments in which we go into Harding mode

If I undestand english correctly, He is in doubt because She have more value than him?
How would you sum up that?