"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Woman wants me to hang out with her friends after two months of dating

Mazer

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Went to a comedy show two weeks ago with this woman where we filled out some form in order to win free tickets. Well, she ended up winning 8-10 free tickets. Called me up immediately to ask if I was available on Saturday to attend.

Today, she asks me if I would like to bring some friends because she was thinking of inviting some of her friends. It should be a fun time she says. Most of my friends are married and don’t want to do that shiit. Plus I’m not interested in having this girl meet my friends. I do not see a LTR with this woman.

She has super high interest and her friends have asked about me numerous times. These ****heads want to see what I am all about. A couple that she is friends with, were asking about me, the dude wanted to know if I played golf. I told her I like hanging out with single people because they are more fun. Zero facks given.

She said she didn’t want to put any pressure on me but thought it would be a fun night.
How should I go about this. If I tell her I have no friends that are interested, she will probably think I’m a loser haha. If I hang out with her then can I flirt with her female friends? I am trying to get a threesome in the future with her and another female friend.

I am just thinking of going by myself and not giving a fack. This shiit is going to suck if it’s all couples haha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lizardking82

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This is the type of chick that wants to make you part of her life completely, but sth tells me she has not had a partner worth presenting to her friends in a while and she now perceives you as one worth presenting so she is rushing. Seems like she just has a bit of an inferiority complex towards her friends who already have partners and she feels a bit left behind in this aspect so she definitely wants to show up with someone holding her hand now that she can, right?

I would say go on your own, but don't give her friends any impression. If you guys been dating shortly, act normally like you would act around her. She wants to use you as a trophy, I say go and explore the situation, have some fun and create some contacts if you will. You never know.
 

The Duke

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Reading between the lines a little it seems like she is hopeful that this relationship turns into more and this is an attempt to push it to the next step(bring in the friends). You on the other hand don't want any of that.

I'd go with the flow and meet her friends, but wouldn't bring any of my own. You will eventually have to give a little more to keep this deal going.
 

jaymbrs

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Agree with @Howiestern about her being hopeful it's LTR but if you're not feeling it, trust me, her friends will sniff that out and things could potentially change for you. It's happened to me before. I would advise against going.
 

The Duke

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Friends always have enormous power in shaping the opinion of the girl you are dating. Make her friends your allies. Feed them full of schitt to make your life easier if you have to. "Her" friends have screwed me over so many times. I think half were jealous they weren't dating me!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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