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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Woman wants me to hang out with her friends after two months of dating

Mazer

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Went to a comedy show two weeks ago with this woman where we filled out some form in order to win free tickets. Well, she ended up winning 8-10 free tickets. Called me up immediately to ask if I was available on Saturday to attend.

Today, she asks me if I would like to bring some friends because she was thinking of inviting some of her friends. It should be a fun time she says. Most of my friends are married and don’t want to do that shiit. Plus I’m not interested in having this girl meet my friends. I do not see a LTR with this woman.

She has super high interest and her friends have asked about me numerous times. These ****heads want to see what I am all about. A couple that she is friends with, were asking about me, the dude wanted to know if I played golf. I told her I like hanging out with single people because they are more fun. Zero facks given.

She said she didn’t want to put any pressure on me but thought it would be a fun night.
How should I go about this. If I tell her I have no friends that are interested, she will probably think I’m a loser haha. If I hang out with her then can I flirt with her female friends? I am trying to get a threesome in the future with her and another female friend.

I am just thinking of going by myself and not giving a fack. This shiit is going to suck if it’s all couples haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lizardking82

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This is the type of chick that wants to make you part of her life completely, but sth tells me she has not had a partner worth presenting to her friends in a while and she now perceives you as one worth presenting so she is rushing. Seems like she just has a bit of an inferiority complex towards her friends who already have partners and she feels a bit left behind in this aspect so she definitely wants to show up with someone holding her hand now that she can, right?

I would say go on your own, but don't give her friends any impression. If you guys been dating shortly, act normally like you would act around her. She wants to use you as a trophy, I say go and explore the situation, have some fun and create some contacts if you will. You never know.
 

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Reading between the lines a little it seems like she is hopeful that this relationship turns into more and this is an attempt to push it to the next step(bring in the friends). You on the other hand don't want any of that.

I'd go with the flow and meet her friends, but wouldn't bring any of my own. You will eventually have to give a little more to keep this deal going.
 

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Agree with @Howiestern about her being hopeful it's LTR but if you're not feeling it, trust me, her friends will sniff that out and things could potentially change for you. It's happened to me before. I would advise against going.
 

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Friends always have enormous power in shaping the opinion of the girl you are dating. Make her friends your allies. Feed them full of schitt to make your life easier if you have to. "Her" friends have screwed me over so many times. I think half were jealous they weren't dating me!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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