"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Woman talking about other men.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Demodulate

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KarmaSutra said:
33 year old guys don't say "like" after every third word.

I call shenanigans on you and this whole thread is a unique example of how boys act when they haven't been ritually murdered then reborn as men.

you do when you get home and your still a little buzzed...

anyway believe what you want..

i got what I needed out of it with Dangers response..
 

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I think you've been reamed enough, Demodulate, but just keep this in mind:

If you date a kid, dont be surprised if you end up playing kid's games.

She's 22, youre 33. Im not saying you cant date younger women, but dont be serious about it. And dont be surprised if you end up in high-school situations like this.
 

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Heh. Don't worry Demodulate, I guarantee everyone in this thread has experienced similar shyt. Don't tell her that you love her back. In fact, now would be a good time to give this broad some space. Let's see how serious she is when she says she 'loves you'.
 

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Demodulate said:
i got what I needed out of it with Dangers response..
I see. You got the instant gratification you were so jonesing after.

Congratulations, you're a woman.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mintxx

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( . )( . ) said:
Your join date says FEB 2003 ..... Are you serious?

A whole bunch of drama of the retards just went down, and your the latest King of it sitting atop spastic castle with a sh!t eating look of total stupidity.

Welcome to HER world bozo.


Real question is wtf is this doing in the mature section. :down:
fvcking EXACTLY. goddamn trash. stay away from it man!
 

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( . )( . ) said:
A whole bunch of drama of the retards just went down, and your the latest King of it sitting atop spastic castle with a sh!t eating look of total stupidity.

Welcome to HER world bozo.
:crackup:
 

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It amazes me how men are prepared to allow women to play out this jealousy thing to this degree. Imagine you were dating a woman and you kept telling her how this one woman would not leave you alone. Imagine you were taking calls and texting this same woman when she was around. Would a decent quality women tolerate this from you? Of course not. FFS, how many red flags does a person need to realise that this woman is an attention ***** drama queen.

You walk away from that ****, you dont try pass her **** tests. Those are not **** tests. Those are ****ing insults.

Its one thing her telling you some guy asked you out. Its another thing having a woman pull the stunts she was pulling.
 

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I'm really curious as to why this girl has some weird obsession with the other guy when she's banging you. Why is she trying to make HIM jealous, knowing that no good can come of it for YOU?

My take is that she has some sort of history with the other guy--maybe she liked him at one time and he coolly rejected her and now wants her, maybe it was more serious than that. It's not normal for an AW to single out a random guy like that, unless he's guilty of a lot more than just liking her.

Anyway, you told her if she pulled that nonsense again you were done, now hold your position. I would tell her to block this guy's # and cease contact with him, just to test how serious she is about you. This is really the only way this drama isn't going to resurface. Be sure she knows it's not about trying to control her or who she talks to, it's about the fact that this other guy is trying to sabotage your relationship (or "whatever"-ship) and WILL break the two of you up if she continues to let him harass her.

WATCH OUT FOR AFC ORBITERS!! They may seem harmless, but they can stir up all sorts of drama and destroy your relationships. If a guy makes his interest known to your girlfriend, it is her responsibility to cut contact with him, outside of a work environment. There is ABSOLUTELY NO GOOD that can come of having an AFC constantly trying to wear down your girlfriend.
 
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