"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Woman sells her virginity for what looks like $5 million

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MORE than 10,000 men have reportedly pledged more than $5 million online to claim the virginity of a 22-year-old San Diego student.

Natalie Dylan is being chased by besotted men across the world keen to spend a massive sum for one night of passion.

The chastity sale was first reported in September by US radio shock jock Howard Stern, but since then interest in her has rocketed with record hits to her MySpace page.

''I am shocked by how far this has gone,'' the 22-year-old told The Daily Mail.

''It's shocking that men will pay so much for someone's virginity, which isn't even prized so highly anymore."

The student already has a degree in women's studies and planned the virginity auction to raise enough funds for a masters course in family and marriage therapy.
http://www.news.com.au/story/0,27574,24908128-401,00.html

I cant believe people would be willing to pay that much money for some birds virginity. Its not the first time something like this has been auctioned but I dont think I ever noticed an amount that high.

You could fund an harem of East European and South American 10's for a good few years with a budget like that. If you are going to pay for sex, why go half measure?

On a more serious note, I am surprised she is not being charged with solicitation. Prostitution is illegal in the USA isnt it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hooligan Harry said:
On a more serious note, I am surprised she is not being charged with solicitation. Prostitution is illegal in the USA isnt it?
I heard about the whole deal on the radio earlier today. I believe the way around the prostitution charge is she is going to be a one day employee of the Bunny Ranch in Las Vegas. For those of you not familiar...that is exactly what you think it is...a place to get laid for money. They even had a series on HBO or Showtime about the Bunny Ranch in the last few years, if I remember right. Anywho, that is the deal with the chick avoiding prostitution charges, although I believe she could get in trouble for soliciting to some degree based on her being in San Diego? Go figure...she is probably a feminist in the making and this would be justification for her to become a shemale man-hater...lol. We shall see!
 

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Actually, the bunny ranch is just outside of Carson City, about 8 hours north of Vegas. Brothels are not allowed in city limits. Check out my post (page 1) in the 'marrying a BPD' thread. Its neat.
 

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AIRWARRIOR71 said:
I heard about the whole deal on the radio earlier today. I believe the way around the prostitution charge is she is going to be a one day employee of the Bunny Ranch in Las Vegas. For those of you not familiar...that is exactly what you think it is...a place to get laid for money. They even had a series on HBO or Showtime about the Bunny Ranch in the last few years, if I remember right. Anywho, that is the deal with the chick avoiding prostitution charges, although I believe she could get in trouble for soliciting to some degree based on her being in San Diego? Go figure...she is probably a feminist in the making and this would be justification for her to become a shemale man-hater...lol. We shall see!
Well, she has completed her degree in womans studies, which means that there is a good chance she is already a feminist.

Saying that, what guarantee can she give that she is a virgin? Its basically her word for a few million bucks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hooligan Harry said:
Well, she has completed her degree in womans studies, which means that there is a good chance she is already a feminist.

Saying that, what guarantee can she give that she is a virgin? Its basically her word for a few million bucks.
I imagine the one that's paying 3.7 million is going to want to see a hymen.

BTW, that would be a guarantee.
 

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azanon said:
I imagine the one that's paying 3.7 million is going to want to see a hymen.

BTW, that would be a guarantee.
Not really. She could have a million excuses as to why hers was broken. Women can tear them during exercise or when inserting a tampon in some cases. If its there then sure, virgin. (Unless she had surgery of course, which is unlikely)

If its not, its her word against yours...
 

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let's see how much cash really gets put up. My guess is it will be a lot less.
 

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Haha.

22.
College girl.
Myspace page

Yeah, she's a virgin.
 

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I'm just waiting for some guy to step forward and claim he hit it and she's not a virgin. The whole thing sounds fishy really, like a publicity stunt. If she really is a virgin at age 22, she's probably a man-hater, feminist and lesbian anyway. I guess it's possible she's a virgin and wants to seel it, but she's probably still a man-hater.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Because the only guy she slept with happened when she was drunk, so it didn't count.
:crackup:

I wonder if this will be the new 'trend' out at the bunnyranch. Dennis Hof is probably out scouting for virgins now. "Come to the bunnyranch, where you can bang a virgin for a million bucks!" Then, of course, he will get them hooked on heroin, so they blow it all, and end up working there full time.

I wonder what his cut in this will be, since she is going through him, to make it legal. Its probably also in his contract to be second.

What does this say about the American family? Where are the parents? Are they encouraging this? Would she even think about doing this if her sister didnt go hor herself first? Probably not. What is she going to tell her kids (God forbid she ever has any) about this.? If she ever has a daughter, guess where she's heading? She'll probably do it too, and mom will probably tell her its OK.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Haha.

22.
College girl.
Myspace page

Yeah, she's a virgin.

Seriously, to all you dudes bidding, consider the source...its not like she was raised in the most conservative of environments.
 

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This is the power of marketing. Even though there's an abundance of desirable vagina in the world, one can create a value and attach it to one vagina and capitalize on that. The value here is in that hers is allegedly previously untouched and pure, and will only go to the highest bidder. This pits one guy against the other as this becomes a bidding war to see who'll win and be privileged to deflower her, rather then just about getting some. We could equate this with owning a rare bottle of wine, even though there's an abundance of wine available in the world, or driving a $100,000 auto even though there are zillions of autos available world-wide to drive. Or even say it's like having an American Express card, because "membership has its privileges" - even though there are millions of members and you still have to pay so it's actually no extraordinary privilege at all. It's just another credit card.

It's all marketing. It's about making you FEEL "I'm the only one who can have this. That makes me special" - even though you're not.

It's the same principles behind why, for example, pictures of Jessica Alba will attract male attention, when these guys can go down to the nearest tittie bar and see several completely naked women or just go online and see even hundreds more.

Just as marketers feed us what pushes our buttons to make us WANT stuff we don't really NEED, it's not about her so much as it's about the guys bidding on her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mr. Me said:
Just as marketers feed us what pushes our buttons to make us WANT stuff we don't really NEED, it's not about her so much as it's about the guys bidding on her.
Bingo.
 
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