"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Woman Renegs Our Deal

bob2007

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What is best way to encourage Female Director to fulfill her promise?

We offered an Important Political Fundraiser's phone contact in exchange
for a meeting with her friend.
NOW, She wants a donation on her kickstarter instead of agreed terms.

A.REVIEW THE DEAL

Remind her of our initial deal.
Not her version of it.

B.
Assert that verbal agreements are binding via law?
-women might not respond well to logic and calling her out

C.
Or should I approach as if she simply forgot the terms of our initial agreement.
Offer her money for other contacts.
Offer her a partnership on another deal.
Get her on the phone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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take her out to dinner to "discuss the deal", but instead make her vag tingle.

The tingles will get you everywhere.
 

bob2007

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WanderingMan said:
take her out to dinner to "discuss the deal", but instead make her vag tingle.

The tingles will get you everywhere.
Might be possible, but Diff country.
 

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Verbal deals are a crap shoot. Legal or not it's "he said/she said", and up to some Judge who is going to believe the one of the two of you with the vagina in their pants.. You decide who that is... For now Email her and kindly remind her what you verbally agreed to. If she tries to call you on the phone in response to your Email, and she probably will, don't answer it.. If you have to, Email her and tell her you came down with laryngitis and can't talk on the phone so you have to correspond by Email.. (I do this several times a year when I want something in writing from people reluctant to give it to me)... If she won't agree to the deal on your terms in writing, walk away from her and don't look back. And learn that verbal deals aren't sh|t with unethical people. And assume that everyone is unethical until they prove to you that they are not.
 
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