"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Woman Renegs Our Deal

bob2007

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What is best way to encourage Female Director to fulfill her promise?

We offered an Important Political Fundraiser's phone contact in exchange
for a meeting with her friend.
NOW, She wants a donation on her kickstarter instead of agreed terms.

A.REVIEW THE DEAL

Remind her of our initial deal.
Not her version of it.

B.
Assert that verbal agreements are binding via law?
-women might not respond well to logic and calling her out

C.
Or should I approach as if she simply forgot the terms of our initial agreement.
Offer her money for other contacts.
Offer her a partnership on another deal.
Get her on the phone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WanderingMan

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take her out to dinner to "discuss the deal", but instead make her vag tingle.

The tingles will get you everywhere.
 

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WanderingMan said:
take her out to dinner to "discuss the deal", but instead make her vag tingle.

The tingles will get you everywhere.
Might be possible, but Diff country.
 

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Verbal deals are a crap shoot. Legal or not it's "he said/she said", and up to some Judge who is going to believe the one of the two of you with the vagina in their pants.. You decide who that is... For now Email her and kindly remind her what you verbally agreed to. If she tries to call you on the phone in response to your Email, and she probably will, don't answer it.. If you have to, Email her and tell her you came down with laryngitis and can't talk on the phone so you have to correspond by Email.. (I do this several times a year when I want something in writing from people reluctant to give it to me)... If she won't agree to the deal on your terms in writing, walk away from her and don't look back. And learn that verbal deals aren't sh|t with unethical people. And assume that everyone is unethical until they prove to you that they are not.
 
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