"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is this woman, who I talk to because we are involved in a group, its not romantic at all. Just a "friendship" My friend also talked to her and believes she is a sociopath. She puts on this nice "front", but she is very nosey and pushy. I also feel like she pretends to listen to people, but I feel that it goes out one ear out the other. She listens, but has her mind made up it seems....its very cliche and robotic

How would this woman be described? A sociopath?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I would describe her as someone I would not really talk to. Never mind the definition
I agree, just wondering what kind of personality disorder she might have, she likes to guilt trip a lot also
 
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