"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Why is it? they dont even know if they want a relationship half the time. they dont know what they wanna eat.
they dont know what color of shoes to wear or dress.. they dont know WHICH man they want.. fuk
stupid b9itches never know shiet alll..

one min they want u, next min they lost interest in you
like im starting to see that all youngs are dumb until thier old enough to know wtf is GOING ON in reality world..

i dont like relationships. because they dont last when your young. but i crave them. i dont like being single.. well i do but i dont like chasing woman. Approaching them, because it makes me look needy and i aint fuking needy.
i duno why but im all about that romance. sweeping girls off their feet.
but when it comes down to relationships and investing.. i dont see a point.. until maybe im 21 or 23 at least...

how the hell do i overcome this? take away this craving.. or relationships. i only had two exes.. thats more than enough for me.
i know u cannot control who u fall for and who u Love and u dont love

but whY. its like a trap. once u fall for it. u cant get out unless u suffer extreme amounts
its like i rather just cruize with one girl in my car rather than have over 10 different girls all the time u know.. knowing that each one at least cheated or fuked a guy over in many ways
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mrRuckus said:
ironic that your sig says age is just a number.
lol i know...

i guess i proved my self wrong
but seriously, i learned alot in the past 5 months..
girls truely dont know what they want,

WHY? is it cuz thier immature? lack of experience?
 

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ChrizZ said:
They´re INSECURE.
i can kinda see your point but is it all woman like this? could u go further please and explain your view of point? it would help alot
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sexy_kuta said:
i can kinda see your point but is it all woman like this? could u go further please and explain your view of point? it would help alot
I don´t know how women think, but that´s my guess why they´re insecure...

Women are completely controlled by their emotions. They don´t think rational like men do. They are insecure because they don´t know what they want. That´s why they dress up, put makeup on etc.
They compete with other girls for men. Their goal is to be picked up by hot guys to increase their social value. Social value gives them security, popularity and some sort of power. They need a man to lead them because they are submissive and don´t know what they want.
 

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sexy_kuta said:
lol i know...

i guess i proved my self wrong
but seriously, i learned alot in the past 5 months..
girls truely dont know what they want,
That is why you lead them, grow them, cultivate them, and dare I say.......train them.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
That is why you lead them, grow them, cultivate them, and dare I say.......train them.
how could u lead a girl that doesnt know what she want. wouldnt she want u one min then the next doesnt want u? like sorry but im just confused.. and a little tked off
 

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If you ask me, I say women have no passion. The majority of women I've encountered have little to no ambition in their (future) goals for that matter, especially their careers. They just dont care, they dont possess the desire to be great in a certain hobby/activity. That also explains why guys need to make the move/take the lead because she wont take the next step until the guy does.
They take what they can get, not go after what they want.
 

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ScrewIt said:
If you ask me, I say women have no passion. The majority of women I've encountered have little to no ambition in their (future) goals for that matter, especially their careers. They just dont care, they dont possess the desire to be great in a certain hobby/activity. That also explains why guys need to make the move/take the lead because she wont take the next step until the guy does.
They take what they can get, not go after what they want.

that makes me ****ing sick. now as we guys. were bust our balls to achieve our ambitions.. we make goals that we can ahieve in a time frame. could be six months, we bust our balls to attract the right girls FOR WHAT? just to get the b1tches approval?

i know theres a few girls who are true.. but im talking about 85 percent of the fuking population..

why do u girls wear make up? and lots of it?
why do some girls go to socials so they got a chance to actually dress up and impress boys..
why is it that everytime im walkin pass a couple.. the girl always tends to start making out with the boy as i walk pass? who is she trying to make jelous?

why is it when two girls are drunk and if one gets all the attention and the other doesnt. she cries...


it makes me fuking sick deep in my stomach
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Scrumtulescence said:
Just to correct you on something-- when you're 16, you're chasing girls, not women.
both my exes were two years older than me

i could be 16 or i could be 26.. what the **** does that matter? u think i make opinion based on 15 year old girls? i have two older brothers. im on here everyday reading alot of threads.

im on other threads aswell.. i see things Everyday..

so please. next time before u make a judgment. get the facts right

I learned ALOT from hanging out wiht my brother and his gf. both 23 and 24..
the way they act.. relates to alot of relationship issues.. maybe not to the same depth but same concept.. the way his girl acts. yet she wasnt slutty. was nice. and relationship material. never disrespected him. and she was wifey material but still. there would be times where she didnt know what she wanted to eat..
or what shoes ot wear.. she would get sad..
 

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sexy_kuta said:
both my exes were two years older than me

i could be 16 or i could be 26.. what the **** does that matter? u think i make opinion based on 15 year old girls? i have two older brothers. im on here everyday reading alot of threads.

im on other threads aswell.. i see things Everyday..

so please. next time before u make a judgment. get the facts right

I learned ALOT from hanging out wiht my brother and his gf. both 23 and 24..
the way they act.. relates to alot of relationship issues.. maybe not to the same depth but same concept..
Yeah, well like I said, you're not "chasing women" as you said, you are chasing girls. Two different kinds of people.

And your perception of "women" in general gained through other men is going to depend greatly on the kind of women those guys attract. If you really think all women are spoiled, aimless, vapid creatures with no goals or aspirations, it just goes to show how immature your knowledge of women and people in general really is. So if you're going to make broad generalizations about women, "get the facts right".

If you're 16, and your ex-girlfriends are two years older than you, I'm going to assume they were no older than 17 at the time. 17 year old girls are children, don't think otherwise.
 

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Scrumtulescence said:
Yeah, well like I said, you're not "chasing women" as you said, you are chasing girls. Two different kinds of people.

And your perception of "women" in general gained through other men is going to depend greatly on the kind of women those guys attract. If you really think all women are spoiled, aimless, vapid creatures with no goals or aspirations, it just goes to show how immature your knowledge of women and people in general really is. So if you're going to make broad generalizations about women, "get the facts right".

If you're 16, and your ex-girlfriends are two years older than you, I'm going to assume they were no older than 17 at the time. 17 year old girls are children, don't think otherwise.
well dont get the wrong idea.. i didnt mean to state that ALL girls are like that.. im trying to say MOST. meaning around 85 percent of girls act like this.. in that 85 percent u can find gold diggers, AWS, cheaters, girls with diorders.. and the list goes on.. how often u find a girl with a personailty grabber and isnt slutty and is attractive? rarely

ur right.. my exes were 17 at the time.. and they didnt know ****.. but i dont make oponions based on them only.. that would be biased.. i make opnions on the threads i see here.. all the time..

based on what i see in the world..

maybe i been focusing on the wrong type of woman but dont tell me that im 100 percent wrong, im pretty sure u could relate to what im saying in a way

im enjoying this disccusion.. i didnt mean to be disrespectful in the last post. i just got angered on the age factor
 

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Scrumtulescence said:
Yeah, well like I said, you're not "chasing women" as you said, you are chasing girls. Two different kinds of people.

ur right.. i also stated that in my first post

"one min they want u, next min they lost interest in you
like im starting to see that all youngs are dumb until thier old enough to know wtf is GOING ON in reality world.."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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