"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why is it? they dont even know if they want a relationship half the time. they dont know what they wanna eat.
they dont know what color of shoes to wear or dress.. they dont know WHICH man they want.. fuk
stupid b9itches never know shiet alll..

one min they want u, next min they lost interest in you
like im starting to see that all youngs are dumb until thier old enough to know wtf is GOING ON in reality world..

i dont like relationships. because they dont last when your young. but i crave them. i dont like being single.. well i do but i dont like chasing woman. Approaching them, because it makes me look needy and i aint fuking needy.
i duno why but im all about that romance. sweeping girls off their feet.
but when it comes down to relationships and investing.. i dont see a point.. until maybe im 21 or 23 at least...

how the hell do i overcome this? take away this craving.. or relationships. i only had two exes.. thats more than enough for me.
i know u cannot control who u fall for and who u Love and u dont love

but whY. its like a trap. once u fall for it. u cant get out unless u suffer extreme amounts
its like i rather just cruize with one girl in my car rather than have over 10 different girls all the time u know.. knowing that each one at least cheated or fuked a guy over in many ways
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrRuckus said:
ironic that your sig says age is just a number.
lol i know...

i guess i proved my self wrong
but seriously, i learned alot in the past 5 months..
girls truely dont know what they want,

WHY? is it cuz thier immature? lack of experience?
 

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ChrizZ said:
They´re INSECURE.
i can kinda see your point but is it all woman like this? could u go further please and explain your view of point? it would help alot
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sexy_kuta said:
i can kinda see your point but is it all woman like this? could u go further please and explain your view of point? it would help alot
I don´t know how women think, but that´s my guess why they´re insecure...

Women are completely controlled by their emotions. They don´t think rational like men do. They are insecure because they don´t know what they want. That´s why they dress up, put makeup on etc.
They compete with other girls for men. Their goal is to be picked up by hot guys to increase their social value. Social value gives them security, popularity and some sort of power. They need a man to lead them because they are submissive and don´t know what they want.
 

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sexy_kuta said:
lol i know...

i guess i proved my self wrong
but seriously, i learned alot in the past 5 months..
girls truely dont know what they want,
That is why you lead them, grow them, cultivate them, and dare I say.......train them.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
That is why you lead them, grow them, cultivate them, and dare I say.......train them.
how could u lead a girl that doesnt know what she want. wouldnt she want u one min then the next doesnt want u? like sorry but im just confused.. and a little tked off
 

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If you ask me, I say women have no passion. The majority of women I've encountered have little to no ambition in their (future) goals for that matter, especially their careers. They just dont care, they dont possess the desire to be great in a certain hobby/activity. That also explains why guys need to make the move/take the lead because she wont take the next step until the guy does.
They take what they can get, not go after what they want.
 

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ScrewIt said:
If you ask me, I say women have no passion. The majority of women I've encountered have little to no ambition in their (future) goals for that matter, especially their careers. They just dont care, they dont possess the desire to be great in a certain hobby/activity. That also explains why guys need to make the move/take the lead because she wont take the next step until the guy does.
They take what they can get, not go after what they want.

that makes me ****ing sick. now as we guys. were bust our balls to achieve our ambitions.. we make goals that we can ahieve in a time frame. could be six months, we bust our balls to attract the right girls FOR WHAT? just to get the b1tches approval?

i know theres a few girls who are true.. but im talking about 85 percent of the fuking population..

why do u girls wear make up? and lots of it?
why do some girls go to socials so they got a chance to actually dress up and impress boys..
why is it that everytime im walkin pass a couple.. the girl always tends to start making out with the boy as i walk pass? who is she trying to make jelous?

why is it when two girls are drunk and if one gets all the attention and the other doesnt. she cries...


it makes me fuking sick deep in my stomach
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scrumtulescence said:
Just to correct you on something-- when you're 16, you're chasing girls, not women.
both my exes were two years older than me

i could be 16 or i could be 26.. what the **** does that matter? u think i make opinion based on 15 year old girls? i have two older brothers. im on here everyday reading alot of threads.

im on other threads aswell.. i see things Everyday..

so please. next time before u make a judgment. get the facts right

I learned ALOT from hanging out wiht my brother and his gf. both 23 and 24..
the way they act.. relates to alot of relationship issues.. maybe not to the same depth but same concept.. the way his girl acts. yet she wasnt slutty. was nice. and relationship material. never disrespected him. and she was wifey material but still. there would be times where she didnt know what she wanted to eat..
or what shoes ot wear.. she would get sad..
 

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sexy_kuta said:
both my exes were two years older than me

i could be 16 or i could be 26.. what the **** does that matter? u think i make opinion based on 15 year old girls? i have two older brothers. im on here everyday reading alot of threads.

im on other threads aswell.. i see things Everyday..

so please. next time before u make a judgment. get the facts right

I learned ALOT from hanging out wiht my brother and his gf. both 23 and 24..
the way they act.. relates to alot of relationship issues.. maybe not to the same depth but same concept..
Yeah, well like I said, you're not "chasing women" as you said, you are chasing girls. Two different kinds of people.

And your perception of "women" in general gained through other men is going to depend greatly on the kind of women those guys attract. If you really think all women are spoiled, aimless, vapid creatures with no goals or aspirations, it just goes to show how immature your knowledge of women and people in general really is. So if you're going to make broad generalizations about women, "get the facts right".

If you're 16, and your ex-girlfriends are two years older than you, I'm going to assume they were no older than 17 at the time. 17 year old girls are children, don't think otherwise.
 

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Scrumtulescence said:
Yeah, well like I said, you're not "chasing women" as you said, you are chasing girls. Two different kinds of people.

And your perception of "women" in general gained through other men is going to depend greatly on the kind of women those guys attract. If you really think all women are spoiled, aimless, vapid creatures with no goals or aspirations, it just goes to show how immature your knowledge of women and people in general really is. So if you're going to make broad generalizations about women, "get the facts right".

If you're 16, and your ex-girlfriends are two years older than you, I'm going to assume they were no older than 17 at the time. 17 year old girls are children, don't think otherwise.
well dont get the wrong idea.. i didnt mean to state that ALL girls are like that.. im trying to say MOST. meaning around 85 percent of girls act like this.. in that 85 percent u can find gold diggers, AWS, cheaters, girls with diorders.. and the list goes on.. how often u find a girl with a personailty grabber and isnt slutty and is attractive? rarely

ur right.. my exes were 17 at the time.. and they didnt know ****.. but i dont make oponions based on them only.. that would be biased.. i make opnions on the threads i see here.. all the time..

based on what i see in the world..

maybe i been focusing on the wrong type of woman but dont tell me that im 100 percent wrong, im pretty sure u could relate to what im saying in a way

im enjoying this disccusion.. i didnt mean to be disrespectful in the last post. i just got angered on the age factor
 

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Scrumtulescence said:
Yeah, well like I said, you're not "chasing women" as you said, you are chasing girls. Two different kinds of people.

ur right.. i also stated that in my first post

"one min they want u, next min they lost interest in you
like im starting to see that all youngs are dumb until thier old enough to know wtf is GOING ON in reality world.."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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