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damn sam that was nice...very well put, couldn't say it better myself.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MisterNigma said:I'm not advocating devoting time to low quality women, what I am advocating is the use of them for your own carnal pleasures.
By reversing the manipulations, you may in fact force many of these "low quality" women to re-examine their behavior.
How do you think a b**tch will react after you f*ck her in one night, and then tell her that you want nothing to do with her b/c she is a golddigger, or emotional leech, slut, etc . . .?
For long term relationships, I believe you should definately stick to only high quality girls.
If however your goal is to get some very nice looking piece of @$$ go ahead and manipulate.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
when u find a girl like that..Sammer VII said:If I'm going to invest my time in a woman...it's going to be a *ucking WOMAN...and not a crack *****. Not a girl who can't say "Thank You" once in a while. Not a girl who ignores me when I've had a bad day. Not a girl who always has a problem that is "so much worse" than what I'm going through. Not some girl who tells me about her guy problems.
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There are girls like that. Just go for an innocent girl rather than looking for the hottest slut you can find... Lower your physical standards a little and raise your mental standards, you will find a girl like that. I am sure of it.sexy_kuta said:when u find a girl like that..
pm me with everything.
the date
how u met her. where
what time it was
what u were wearing
what kind of shoes u had
what u ate that day
what time u took a piss that day
how long u were taking a sheit too that day
i really havnt seen of found of what you discribed
lower to how low? my standards arent that high when it comes to relationships. my ex was like a 8.5 and at times 9.5Sammer VII said:There are girls like that. Just go for an innocent girl rather than looking for the hottest slut you can find... Lower your physical standards a little and raise your mental standards, you will find a girl like that. I am sure of it.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Where do you go looking for girls, or where did you go?sexy_kuta said:lower to how low? my standards arent that high when it comes to relationships. my ex was like a 8.5 and at times 9.5
but i dont go for looks. looks basicly gets me first looks u know what i mean. caughtes my eyes.. NExt thing i worry about their type.. gold digger. bittches? whors? then the next would be personailty...
then the list goes on. like to be honest.. i been through over 30 girls in my life.. met them.. and only two pasted first days.. and those two were my exes.. thats how disguted i am. so digusted that i let girls chase Me. and its pretty sad on how they try to apprach me then think that imma offer them alot first hand..
girls these days make me sick
THE_ADDMAN said:I see where you're going with this, and I understand your logic.
Unfortunately, logic doesnt apply to girls.
As long as there are other men who will bend over backwards for her, a majority of these women have no incentive to improve themselves. It takes a hell of a DJ to make a woman truly want to change her ways.
And most other girls will not step back and examine their behavior after you manipulate them back. They will either place the blame on you, and continue their ways, or will try to find a way to "one-up" you
damn i made alot of spelling mistakes in my first post.Sammer VII said:Where do you go looking for girls, or where did you go?