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damn sam that was nice...very well put, couldn't say it better myself.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MisterNigma said:I'm not advocating devoting time to low quality women, what I am advocating is the use of them for your own carnal pleasures.
By reversing the manipulations, you may in fact force many of these "low quality" women to re-examine their behavior.
How do you think a b**tch will react after you f*ck her in one night, and then tell her that you want nothing to do with her b/c she is a golddigger, or emotional leech, slut, etc . . .?
For long term relationships, I believe you should definately stick to only high quality girls.
If however your goal is to get some very nice looking piece of @$$ go ahead and manipulate.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
when u find a girl like that..Sammer VII said:If I'm going to invest my time in a woman...it's going to be a *ucking WOMAN...and not a crack *****. Not a girl who can't say "Thank You" once in a while. Not a girl who ignores me when I've had a bad day. Not a girl who always has a problem that is "so much worse" than what I'm going through. Not some girl who tells me about her guy problems.
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There are girls like that. Just go for an innocent girl rather than looking for the hottest slut you can find... Lower your physical standards a little and raise your mental standards, you will find a girl like that. I am sure of it.sexy_kuta said:when u find a girl like that..
pm me with everything.
the date
how u met her. where
what time it was
what u were wearing
what kind of shoes u had
what u ate that day
what time u took a piss that day
how long u were taking a sheit too that day
i really havnt seen of found of what you discribed
lower to how low? my standards arent that high when it comes to relationships. my ex was like a 8.5 and at times 9.5Sammer VII said:There are girls like that. Just go for an innocent girl rather than looking for the hottest slut you can find... Lower your physical standards a little and raise your mental standards, you will find a girl like that. I am sure of it.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Where do you go looking for girls, or where did you go?sexy_kuta said:lower to how low? my standards arent that high when it comes to relationships. my ex was like a 8.5 and at times 9.5
but i dont go for looks. looks basicly gets me first looks u know what i mean. caughtes my eyes.. NExt thing i worry about their type.. gold digger. bittches? whors? then the next would be personailty...
then the list goes on. like to be honest.. i been through over 30 girls in my life.. met them.. and only two pasted first days.. and those two were my exes.. thats how disguted i am. so digusted that i let girls chase Me. and its pretty sad on how they try to apprach me then think that imma offer them alot first hand..
girls these days make me sick
THE_ADDMAN said:I see where you're going with this, and I understand your logic.
Unfortunately, logic doesnt apply to girls.
As long as there are other men who will bend over backwards for her, a majority of these women have no incentive to improve themselves. It takes a hell of a DJ to make a woman truly want to change her ways.
And most other girls will not step back and examine their behavior after you manipulate them back. They will either place the blame on you, and continue their ways, or will try to find a way to "one-up" you
damn i made alot of spelling mistakes in my first post.Sammer VII said:Where do you go looking for girls, or where did you go?