Woman literally will not stop texting me between dates...how to handle?

[BackInTheGame78]

Its getting to the point of being annoying...got a "movie date" setup at this woman's house Thursday(aka, hammer time), and she is constantly texting me.

I take a long time to respond but she responds immediately with stuff like "I was just wondering what you were doing over there...", etc when I take 3 or 4 hours to text back...

Not sure what to do about this, as I don't want to sit around getting texts from her all day, but at the same time don't want to screw up a sure bang...

Advice? Only got one more day to go thank goodness, lol

Only been on one date with her but she is really into me...just can't take the constant texting, lol

 

[jimmy18]

Just stop replying to her; she will get the message. Ironically, not replying will actually increase your chances of banging her.

Don't set the precedent of "texting her all day" early in a relationship, or she will come to expect that in the future out of habit.

 

[dutchmaster]

Shes prob a psycho.. in which case that pvssy is good. just text back till thursday then pump and dump. How much time are you really wasting texting?

Don't be blasting her phone or anything. But since youre annoyed you should be fine. Just send back low investment replies or none at all like the poster before me said.

 

[jimmy18]

The main thing to remember with texting is that you get FAR BETTER results by being "rude" i.e. ignoring her questions, stopping midway through conversations, taking forever to respond, or sending vague non sequitur messages.

Asking her how her (day) went, etc. before she's invested in you will not make you stand out. Having absolutely piss poor texting "manners" will, however.

-Jeffst1980

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yeah, she already has told me that I'm "anti-texting" jokingly, lol...

Just gotta make it through today...sigh

 

[Greasy Pig]

Sounds like a clinger. Tread warily.

 

[TheCWord]

I think you're handling it perfectly, BackInTheGame. It doesn't sound like it's really a problem yet, because you've effectively managed it. By taking hours to respond, you've made sure that you're not engaging in day-long small talk marathons with her.

As long as she's not bombarding your phone with texts when you don't reply, it doesn't sound like this should affect your day too much. She texts you and you reply if and when you feel like it. Not only are you dictating the texting levels, but you're making sure that she's investing more than you. Should make for a good time tomorrow night.

And yes, she might be a needy clinger if this is happening after one date, who knows, but this post is about what to do when a girl tries to chit chat with you over text throughout the day. For my money, you're doing it all right.

 

[El Payaso]

You have to learn how to close conversations.

When she texts you, you engage her for two lines.

Girl: Hey, game. blah...blah...blah.

You: Yeah, I know. It was blah....blah...blah. I'm sure you enjoyed it.

Girl: Yeah. Thanks. Blah....blah...blah.

You: Glad to hear that. I have to get back to work. Enjoy the rest of your day.

Girl: Thanks! You too!

If she texts after that. You ignore it. Plain and simple. She'll know that you're busy.

Just close conversations on the non stop texters and you'll be good.

 

[cervantesscthree]

You have to learn how to close conversations.

When she texts you, you engage her for two lines.

Girl: Hey, game. blah...blah...blah.

You: Yeah, I know. It was blah....blah...blah. I'm sure you enjoyed it.

Girl: Yeah. Thanks. Blah....blah...blah.

You: Glad to hear that. I have to get back to work. Enjoy the rest of your day.

Girl: Thanks! You too!

If she texts after that. You ignore it. Plain and simple. She'll know that you're busy.

Just close conversations on the non stop texters and you'll be good.

. . . +1

 

[TheCWord]

You have to learn how to close conversations.

When she texts you, you engage her for two lines.

Girl: Hey, game. blah...blah...blah.

You: Yeah, I know. It was blah....blah...blah. I'm sure you enjoyed it.

Girl: Yeah. Thanks. Blah....blah...blah.

You: Glad to hear that. I have to get back to work. Enjoy the rest of your day.

Girl: Thanks! You too!

If she texts after that. You ignore it. Plain and simple. She'll know that you're busy.

Just close conversations on the non stop texters and you'll be good.

This might just be a matter of personal tastes. For me, I never feel the need to shut down a text conversation because a text message never demands my immediate attention. I get around to it whenever I can/feel like it. Or sometimes I don't reply. Or sometimes I do, then she says something else that doesn't warrant a reply, so I don't.

I personally never say I gotta go, like its a phone conversation, because it's not a phone conversation. There's nothing keeping me there.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I send 2 lines, she sends 4 pages, lol...

 

[El Payaso]

I send 2 lines, she sends 4 pages, lol...

Just close her.

 

[Poop1337]

I mean just stop caring so much and the problem will sort itself out. Ignoring texts you don't want always works

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It sorted itself out...met up with her at her place to watch a movie and ended up railing her 3 times...she kept calling me a man-wh0re and a player beforehand, so I knew I was in a good place...also punished her for her transgressions, lol