Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Woman inviting me for sex few times always changing her mind when im there

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I like her, but shes doing dumb chit, invites me over for sex, i travel for over 1h, then she says shes stressed or smth, today she said its too light and she needs dark (ok all my girls at first needed to do it in dark room but it was middle of the day this time so we couldnt make it dark).



i like her company, even tho there was no sex, we tried few times, sometimes i get her naked sometimes she has problems putting her pants down.


i assume she has mental problems, as far as i know she likes me and thinks im hot, and wants to do it. she had only 2 boyfriends before and didnt do random sex.


look idk, i like her, but in the same time i dont like her. i dont like her for denying me sex, i think the answer is only one, NEXTTTTT, because, even tho shes cute and i had no problems till now (except lack of sex) she also compliments me a lot and kisses n hugs me in public place near her home (so basically her neighbours can see her doing it with younger guy)



i assume shes somehow damaged or very shy but she doesnt really act like shy girls (shes more talk active than comedians l.m.a.o)

you guys prob assume shes trying to make me her orbiter - no, im sure thats not the case, maybe she tried before through texting, but i said i wont meet her if there will be no sex, she got pissed off at first, then she texted me next day and invited for sex.


well, but all that really doesnt matter, because i still dont get sex.

i know already the answer, that is to block her n next, but idk i like her



she has one parent and no grandparents, if that matters, and somehow hates her ex but i didnt get to know why. also shes bipolar and takes medicine
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm going make an advice thread in the future about this because there's an unwritten rule about going to a woman's place to have sex.

Your home = Your frame
Her home = Her frame

If you've never had sex with her before, make sure she goes to your place first. At least you'll be in an environment you can control.

If you go over to her place, all the uglies come out.
And I don't mean ugly as in people, but ugly as in circumstances.
From orbiters, to kids, parents, friends, cousins, roommates, ex's, unwanted neighbors, too many pets, police, homework assignments, lack of food.... etc.
There's always something there to c0ckblock you unexpectedly.
 

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From orbiters, to kids, parents, friends, cousins, roommates, ex's, unwanted neighbors, too many pets, police, homework assignments, lack of food.... etc.
There's always something there to c0ckblock you unexpectedly.
Sounds like a party!


 
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If you go over to her place, all the uglies come out.
And I don't mean ugly as in people, but ugly as in circumstances.
From orbiters, to kids, parents, friends, cousins, roommates, ex's, unwanted neighbors, too many pets, police, homework assignments, lack of food.... etc.
There's always something there to c0ckblock you unexpectedly.
Cousins? Police? Exes?
Hahah what!? Are they hiding in her closet or something, popping out of the tickle trunk?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maintaining frame isnt about location. If anything I prefer to bang them at their place because I can always get up and leave, don’t have to clean my sheets and most importantly, bitches don’t where I live so they can’t stalk me. Plus I practically own her place if you faack her good enough. If they are DTF they will make sure their family and the dog are gone.
 

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Ive never had this happen before. The closest I had was a woman who said all she was gonna do was give me a ******* but once I started fingering her and made her squirt she couldnt take it and was like "Damn you!" With a laugh and I railed her multiple times for like 3 hours.
 

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I like her, but shes doing dumb chit, invites me over for sex, i travel for over 1h, then she says shes stressed or smth, today she said its too light and she needs dark (ok all my girls at first needed to do it in dark room but it was middle of the day this time so we couldnt make it dark).



i like her company, even tho there was no sex, we tried few times, sometimes i get her naked sometimes she has problems putting her pants down.


i assume she has mental problems, as far as i know she likes me and thinks im hot, and wants to do it. she had only 2 boyfriends before and didnt do random sex.


look idk, i like her, but in the same time i dont like her. i dont like her for denying me sex, i think the answer is only one, NEXTTTTT, because, even tho shes cute and i had no problems till now (except lack of sex) she also compliments me a lot and kisses n hugs me in public place near her home (so basically her neighbours can see her doing it with younger guy)



i assume shes somehow damaged or very shy but she doesnt really act like shy girls (shes more talk active than comedians l.m.a.o)

you guys prob assume shes trying to make me her orbiter - no, im sure thats not the case, maybe she tried before through texting, but i said i wont meet her if there will be no sex, she got pissed off at first, then she texted me next day and invited for sex.


well, but all that really doesnt matter, because i still dont get sex.

i know already the answer, that is to block her n next, but idk i like her



she has one parent and no grandparents, if that matters, and somehow hates her ex but i didnt get to know why. also shes bipolar and takes medicine
Aren’t you spinning plates? Why invest so much in one chick who is bipolar?
 
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