"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Woman I used to like may find out about DD CDs

Maeisgood

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The craziest thing happened. I bumped into a woman I used to like and she said her dad accidently got my mail. Being a typical woman, she opened it because she said since it was about the same college she wanted to apply to, that she should see it. They can justify any snooping. I'm afraid that my "David DeAngelo Communication" CDs will fall into her hands and she'll find out what she's driven me to. She knows all the same people I do so word will spread.

1. How do I switch where they are mailed to?

2. How do I find out if she's found them or not without letting her know too much?

I have nothing but respect for David D, but it'd be embarassing to admit I need the help, especially since she's a part of the reason I bought them in the first place. What were the odds her dad and I would have the same PO Box number, and have him get my mail?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ethnomethodologist

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Call your PO and ask if it can be sent 'general delivery' that way you can pick it up at your leisure.
 

Eulogy

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Tell her not to open your ****ing letters and packages?
 

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If you have another email address (if you dont, make one) and email all your D. Deangelo stuff to your other inbox. Then find an alreasy existing newsletter in your inbox and choose the link to unsuscribe. Then just be straight with her that you don't like her reading your emails and that she should just make her own...don't wuss out, be straight with that. I doubt she will react in a negative way - she will most likely respect that. ANd case closed...hopefully. :)

P.S. Changing your pass can also do the trick! DeAngelo says that we shouldnt be ashamed of it and that women will appreciate the fact that we try to improve the way we communicate with them...But I dont know about that lol.
 

Maeisgood

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Thanks for the advice all. It was the real mail she was opening. Her dad has the same PO Box number as me, but in a different town. She opening my friggin mail. I want to mail myself a letter that insults her in it and then when she yells at me I can laugh at her and say I got you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Damn...sorry man, I misread your post from the beginning. I thought email address instead of PO Box :crackup:
 

ethnomethodologist

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The hell is the postal service doing sending **** to a different town? There is such thing as zip codes... I think this is a lie now....

Anywho, I hope your not just worrying that after you order this that the girl will suddenly get all jumpy and start thinking of you like your a loser. If so, than you really are a loser, and you need DYD to boost your innergame.

You do need innergame, if you worry about this at all!
 

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Get a control of yourself.

You've been here since 2004 and you are still an AFC.


Why would you even LET HER OPEN YOUR MAIL?!
 

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Who gives a f*** what other people think?

And tell her she has no business opening your mail.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Your post doesn't make any sense. Why would the mail service send your mail to a person in a different town with a totally different name?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ethnomethodologist

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Your post doesn't make any sense. Why would the mail service send your mail to a person in a different town with a totally different name?
:whistle:
 

Deep Dish

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Assuming you live in the US, You can always inform her that it's a federal crime for her to open up your mail.

EDIT: Different town? Why worry?
 

Maeisgood

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Yes, bluelemond, I let her open my mail. That is exactly why I have been an AFC for two years.

You did not get the point. My mail (real physical US Postal service mail) was accidently sent to her dad's PO Box, she got my mail and opened it. I was asking what to do about it she found it or how to get it sent to the right place. I have told her not to open my mail, its a crime, and to forward it to me.

It would be the ultimate flattery for her to learn that as soon as I lost my chance with her that I spent over a hundred dollars on how to learn to not suck.
 

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Maeisgood said:
that as soon as I lost my chance with her

Get a CONTROL of yourself.

She is the one that is loosing the chance with YOU.

You are the PRIZE!



Read the DJ Bible, because I'm assuming you haven't.
 
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