"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Woman I like at work, not sure how to go about it

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Well, I've definitely got something for an older woman at work.

The way she looks at me makes me smile and feel drawn towards her, but when she's not looking at me I don't find her anywhere near as attractive! :confused:


Every day I tell myself, Im gonna just ask straight out for her number and ask her to join me for a coffee/drink, but I get discouraged in the presence of co workers.

Its just a temp job and the office there is very relaxed.

Thing is the office workers pretty much always make dirty jokes to each other, and I find that a bit of a turn off, but I can tell, when Im around, the woman tries to rise above it and pass the jokes off.
I'm pissed that I've left it till now to post here, I've been meaning to ask her out for a week now...


So I need to catch her when nobody else is around, or maybe use the PC to write rather than speak?! Sounds sad but what can I do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Hay, going to lunch? I think Ill join you"
 
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Don't talk to women you work with. It could turn into a cluster eff and you could lose your job.
 
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That was quick! Yeah, sounds like a plan selfmademob and Skel.
Im out on site most of the day so finding time to talk when back at base is at a premium.


Work + attraction, thats what bugs me Maximus Rex, I read on here about how dating a coworker is a no go, but its not something I've done before, and well its only a temp job... but I do keep trying to find reasons to not ask her out!

What's a cluster eff?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cluster F*ck. A really bad sitution. If it's that important to ask her out, if another job.
 
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