“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Woman I like at work, not sure how to go about it

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Well, I've definitely got something for an older woman at work.

The way she looks at me makes me smile and feel drawn towards her, but when she's not looking at me I don't find her anywhere near as attractive! :confused:


Every day I tell myself, Im gonna just ask straight out for her number and ask her to join me for a coffee/drink, but I get discouraged in the presence of co workers.

Its just a temp job and the office there is very relaxed.

Thing is the office workers pretty much always make dirty jokes to each other, and I find that a bit of a turn off, but I can tell, when Im around, the woman tries to rise above it and pass the jokes off.
I'm pissed that I've left it till now to post here, I've been meaning to ask her out for a week now...


So I need to catch her when nobody else is around, or maybe use the PC to write rather than speak?! Sounds sad but what can I do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Hay, going to lunch? I think Ill join you"
 
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Don't talk to women you work with. It could turn into a cluster eff and you could lose your job.
 
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That was quick! Yeah, sounds like a plan selfmademob and Skel.
Im out on site most of the day so finding time to talk when back at base is at a premium.


Work + attraction, thats what bugs me Maximus Rex, I read on here about how dating a coworker is a no go, but its not something I've done before, and well its only a temp job... but I do keep trying to find reasons to not ask her out!

What's a cluster eff?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cluster F*ck. A really bad sitution. If it's that important to ask her out, if another job.
 
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