Woman has gone on 77 first dates in under 2 years...

[marmel75]

And claims she is really picky and has a very narrow range of what is acceptable.

The issue is what she "wants" in someone is based on physical traits but those only help initially...those traits do nothing for helping long term compatibility so while she thinks he will be the perfect guy to be with, she will end up realizing he likely isn't long term as she eventually will want more than just looks.

Her narrow criteria do nothing to help her find long term happiness which is laughable considering she is spending all this time to try and assure long term happiness.

Another example of how females can be ridiculous with their requirements that would have no basis in their happiness long term.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/ultimate-serial-dater-gone-77-first-dates-just-two-years-120042573.html

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Or the fact that she, herself, is worth nothing.

That probably never crossed her mind.

 

[resilient]

To me, this story tells me this person is dissatisfied with themselves. One can have high-standards and 77 first dates are screening to the max. I see very little that she'll compromise with.

Strong relationships take patience, empathy, and compromise.

One little item marked missing from her checklist and you're out. I have no patience for women like these females that are professional serial daters.

 

[Von]

Remind me the sister of a friend. And themovie "the ugly truth"

Maybe i read her badly

But when I asked her what she wanted..... i got the entire quality list.

And of course, she has to be the boss and in control

Libéral profesion ask for women to be agreeisve, in control, bossy etc... but they bring these Strait home.

So when asked about what they want in love... they can't answer straigth and their behaviour is wild....

But of course action is louder than Words but... they say: they want alpha, they go for bêta and complain hé aint alpha

 

[Cambridge]

Her narrow criteria do nothing to help her find long term happiness which is laughable considering she is spending all this time to try and assure long term happiness.

Another example of how females can be ridiculous with their requirements that would have no basis in their happiness long term

Had a colleague that had her beat actually. 1-2 a week rain or shine. High interpersonal skills can make certain women enjoyable at a shallow level to just about any guy. Mix that with a firehose of weak matches from online dating and wa-la!

 

[guru1000]

Had a colleague that had her beat actually. 1-2 a week rain or shine. High interpersonal skills can make certain women enjoyable at a shallow level to just about any guy. Mix that with a firehose of weak matches from online dating and wa-la!

Meh, try 77 in less than four months. Builds your social "muscle" best.

 

[bigneil]

And she needs to go on 1585 more dates (43 years at the current pace) to find someone who is rich enough, hot enough and popular enough to keep the average woman happy (1 in 64,000 guys qualify).

 

[Urbanyst]

All the cats she will own soon are being born right now lol.

 

[Bible_Belt]

That's about one new first date every week and a half. A lot of us here could do the same thing, especially living in a major city with a constant stream of new people.

 

[marmel75]

That's about one new first date every week and a half. A lot of us here could do the same thing, especially living in a major city with a constant stream of new people.

Of course but in the context of her desperately trying to find something long term there are likely very few guys who would go on 77 dates to find a long term partner if that's what they wanted.

 

[ubercat]

I'm not sure Desi s high score theory is universally applicable. But from my experience its certainly common. And it's been around forever. I remember listening to doc love on hard interview mode. His take was that structured women were a pain in the ass and should be nexted immediately.

When I was in my early 40s I remember going on all these dates with chicks in their 30s and it was bloody hilarious the shopping list it was like growth rings on a tree kept getting bigger while their SMV was going down.

And of course most of these chicks were unaccomplished corporate drones. A bit of idle chit chat and a quick loan of their vag was all they were good for

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

And claims she is really picky and has a very narrow range of what is acceptable.

The issue is what she "wants" in someone is based on physical traits but those only help initially...those traits do nothing for helping long term compatibility so while she thinks he will be the perfect guy to be with, she will end up realizing he likely isn't long term as she eventually will want more than just looks.

Her narrow criteria do nothing to help her find long term happiness which is laughable considering she is spending all this time to try and assure long term happiness.

Another example of how females can be ridiculous with their requirements that would have no basis in their happiness long term.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/ultimate-serial-dater-gone-77-first-dates-just-two-years-120042573.html

She is the epitome of a consumer. Shop, shop, shop until you drop dead of old age. Misseducated, and very unattractive.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

And claims she is really picky and has a very narrow range of what is acceptable.

The issue is what she "wants" in someone is based on physical traits but those only help initially...those traits do nothing for helping long term compatibility so while she thinks he will be the perfect guy to be with, she will end up realizing he likely isn't long term as she eventually will want more than just looks.

Her narrow criteria do nothing to help her find long term happiness which is laughable considering she is spending all this time to try and assure long term happiness.

Another example of how females can be ridiculous with their requirements that would have no basis in their happiness long term.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/ultimate-serial-dater-gone-77-first-dates-just-two-years-120042573.html

That's not even that bad. Years ago there was a woman on POF on their forums on a thread (one of their regular forum posters) the chick was from New Zealand, looked to be in her late fifties early sixties, built like a moose..the chick had been on POF for ten years and said she'd been on 600 SIX HUNDRED dates with different men in the time she'd been on POF and she was "tired of all the liars and cheats". You should have read the responses. even the women posters thought she was nuts. That's freaking 60 different men a year, more than 1 man a WEEK, for ten years. Chick was beastly looking too. Yet blamed everything on the men she dated. People were asking her how in the hell she couldn't find ONE man out of SIX HUNDRED in ten freaking years. She blamed it on the "liars and cheats".

The woman was clearly insane. I couldn't make the shyt up if I tried.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

That's not even that bad. Years ago there was a woman on POF on their forums on a thread (one of their regular forum posters) the chick was from New Zealand, looked to be in her late fifties early sixties, built like a moose..the chick had been on POF for ten years and said she'd been on 600 SIX HUNDRED dates with different men in the time she'd been on POF and she was "tired of all the liars and cheats". You should have read the responses. even the women posters thought she was nuts. That's freaking 60 different men a year, more than 1 man a WEEK, for ten years. Chick was beastly looking too. Yet blamed everything on the men she dated. People were asking her how in the hell she couldn't find ONE man out of SIX HUNDRED in ten freaking years. She blamed it on the "liars and cheats".

The woman was clearly insane. I couldn't make the shyt up if I tried.

And no doubt the internet encourages this kind of behavior. A disconnect opens up between their on-line life and reality, they start to inhabit a fantasy world, a parallel universe, where everything revolves around them. Sad.

The other thing is, you always have a thousand options at your fingertips [a twist on imaginary friends]. A little bit of insecurity on your part, and you will next all these suitors with glee.

Compare this to our grandparents age. They met at a dance [hard to meet], fooled around, got married.

Here's the paradox; the easier it is to meet people, the harder it is [in real qualitative terms]. Technology is more a hindrance than a help. Get off-line.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

And no doubt the internet encourages this kind of behavior. A disconnect opens up between their on-line life and reality, they start to inhabit a fantasy world, a parallel universe, where everything revolves around them. Sad.

God as my witness. If I'm making the shyt up may I drop dead.

This chick was HIDEOUS and DEAD SERIOUS. She wasn't some troll either. One of their long time regular posters. I went on the forums a while back and read the shyt, and the replies were off the charts. Chick actually blamed every dude SIX HUNDRED of them. I was sitting there thinking damn she must have dated every dude that pulled into port in New Zealand. One dude had told her he was contacting Guiness Book of World records for her prize. lol. If that woman had kids...God help them. Their mother is a nutcase.

 

[logicallefty]

I went on 70 or more first dates between April 2004 and early 2008. A few in there became 6-12 month LTRs in which I did not stray from while in them. With online dating and 3-4 in a weekend at times, weeknight dates too, even 2 in one single day/night sometimes, it was very doable.

 

[beforeimgone]

And claims she is really picky and has a very narrow range of what is acceptable.

The issue is what she "wants" in someone is based on physical traits but those only help initially...those traits do nothing for helping long term compatibility so while she thinks he will be the perfect guy to be with, she will end up realizing he likely isn't long term as she eventually will want more than just looks.

Her narrow criteria do nothing to help her find long term happiness which is laughable considering she is spending all this time to try and assure long term happiness.

Another example of how females can be ridiculous with their requirements that would have no basis in their happiness long term.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/ultimate-serial-dater-gone-77-first-dates-just-two-years-120042573.html

Be 78

 

[ubercat]

Geez it would b like shagging a gumboot.

 

[MatureDJ]

I'll admit that it wouldn't be such a problem if the date were a nearby coffee shop going "Dutch".

 

[MatureDJ]

That's not even that bad. Years ago there was a woman on POF on their forums on a thread (one of their regular forum posters) the chick was from New Zealand, looked to be in her late fifties early sixties, built like a moose..the chick had been on POF for ten years and said she'd been on 600 SIX HUNDRED dates with different men in the time she'd been on POF and she was "tired of all the liars and cheats". You should have read the responses. even the women posters thought she was nuts. That's freaking 60 different men a year, more than 1 man a WEEK, for ten years. Chick was beastly looking too. Yet blamed everything on the men she dated. People were asking her how in the hell she couldn't find ONE man out of SIX HUNDRED in ten freaking years. She blamed it on the "liars and cheats".

The woman was clearly insane. I couldn't make the shyt up if I tried.

I think we would all appreciate a link to this article.