You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Doesn't matter. You'd literally have to be mentally retarded to be that stupid. Its not even a matter of being sheltered, its a matter of common sense.Wyldfire said:
I know it came out sorta funny but I was serious. It has all the hallmarks of a dumped chick trying every trick in her book to get even. She played the he tricked me card. She played the he has a disease card. She played the I'm so innocent card.ValleyDJing said:
Yes, people really can be that ignorant of information. Look at all the people in Africa who are dying of AIDS in epidemic proportions. We've been giving them free condoms for a LONG time, giving information about AIDS and many African men still refuse to use condoms even though they know they are at high risk of catching a disease that will kill them and orphan their children.ValleyDJing said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wyldfire said:
ValleyDJing said:
I imagine its tough being over there, because everyone's walking around with their s*** all hanging out and exposed. If you see one you like, you can just pull her behind the nearest bush and take care of business. Who's thinking about condoms when sex can just be "spir of the moment" in that setting?Wyldfire said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yep...I think he could be charged on a sexual offense only if he were in some way impersonating a doctor or medically trained person where, in this situation, he would be in a position of authority. In those types of cases it's considered more serious than just two peers.JohnJones said: