"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Woman gave me her # by accident?

ThisNThat

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This is strange, I was corresponding with a woman via the Meetup messaging system. She had joined a singles group, and she lived local to me. We emailed back and forth a couple of times and in her last message, I think she included her signature with full name, phone # and LinkedIn profile.

I am guessing she didn't mean to do that, but I'm tempted to call her...but not sure if it's a good idea?

Is it fair game , even if it was an accident?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlexKaiser

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Go do it, mang.

The worst she can do is go "I don't want to talk to you." and then never text/call back.
 

El Payaso

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If you've developed a good rapport, let her know before you call her.
 
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