"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Woman gave me her # by accident?

ThisNThat

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This is strange, I was corresponding with a woman via the Meetup messaging system. She had joined a singles group, and she lived local to me. We emailed back and forth a couple of times and in her last message, I think she included her signature with full name, phone # and LinkedIn profile.

I am guessing she didn't mean to do that, but I'm tempted to call her...but not sure if it's a good idea?

Is it fair game , even if it was an accident?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AlexKaiser

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Go do it, mang.

The worst she can do is go "I don't want to talk to you." and then never text/call back.
 

El Payaso

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If you've developed a good rapport, let her know before you call her.
 
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