"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Woman gave me her # by accident?

ThisNThat

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This is strange, I was corresponding with a woman via the Meetup messaging system. She had joined a singles group, and she lived local to me. We emailed back and forth a couple of times and in her last message, I think she included her signature with full name, phone # and LinkedIn profile.

I am guessing she didn't mean to do that, but I'm tempted to call her...but not sure if it's a good idea?

Is it fair game , even if it was an accident?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AlexKaiser

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Go do it, mang.

The worst she can do is go "I don't want to talk to you." and then never text/call back.
 

El Payaso

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If you've developed a good rapport, let her know before you call her.
 
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