"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Woman from philippines

CaptFinnBad

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2021
Messages
442
Reaction score
289
Age
42
Joined tinder matched with this woman originally from the Philippines.

It's a bit annoying actually because my search radius was set for about a 30 min drive in distance maximum.

I live close to the sea. Tinder didn't take into account the water only distance, she lives the opposite side of the channel, so it's more like a 1hoir 30 min hour drive to go around to the bridge.

It's a bit too much detail just making a point it's too far away too just be going on a impromptu casual date (which I would have already asked her on by now).

Normally I would disqualify someone that far away because of the distance, BUT I'm ridiculously into Asian women and they are really hard to meet in my area.

She works in the medical profession, quite a bit younger than me and super attractive.

She also seems super eager and into me.

I know women are not the same from specific cultures. Just wondering if any of you guys could give me a quick crash course on the culture, their expectations to dating and views expectations towards sex (as in sleeping with soon, or is the culture more reserved in general) e.t.c.

Definitely planning meeting up with her as soon as I logistically can despite the distance (which makes meeting up on a weekday after work impossible).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Travel memoir21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2020
Messages
2,014
Reaction score
1,150
Age
40
Location
Rio Grande Valley, Texas
Filipinas tends to be more chaste and more conservative to sex usually. Don't know how the times have changed, but they tend to be. Expect to be invited to a couple of Filipino parties if you ever get into a relationship with her lol. Lots of Pansit, Lumpia and all that good stuff.
 

plumber

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 1, 2022
Messages
1,014
Reaction score
860
pretty much function the same way as women from other places. nothing really different. lots of info if you are looking for an ltr. as your just looking for a date, just the same as others. s-ex is not any more or less guaranteed than other races.

if you have a closer choice that is also good, get the closer (less hassle) one.

if nothing better and you have the time, go check it out.
 

Scaramouche

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2008
Messages
4,440
Reaction score
1,558
Age
82
Location
Australia
Hi Captain Finn,
@plumber has it right....They are mostly very good Women and in my experience "Super Easy",though I have never met a highly educated one...Ninety minute drive is several bridges too far...I wouldn't proceed in any way,if you don't click it is a waste of time and effort...If you do,you will want more and at three hours driving for each jump,the juice just aint worth the squeeze...The best place to find these Ladies is at a Philippino Church,there might be one close to you,if you know anyone in a relationship with one,ask him to get his Girl to find someone for you,she wont be offended.
 

CaptFinnBad

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2021
Messages
442
Reaction score
289
Age
42
Hi Captain Finn,
@plumber has it right....They are mostly very good Women and in my experience "Super Easy",though I have never met a highly educated one...Ninety minute drive is several bridges too far...I wouldn't proceed in any way,if you don't click it is a waste of time and effort...If you do,you will want more and at three hours driving for each jump,the juice just aint worth the squeeze...The best place to find these Ladies is at a Philippino Church,there might be one close to you,if you know anyone in a relationship with one,ask him to get his Girl to find someone for you,she wont be offended.
Sorry to say but my downstairs brain is in charge and taking the lead on this one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

CaptFinnBad

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2021
Messages
442
Reaction score
289
Age
42
Hi Captain Finn,
@plumber has it right....They are mostly very good Women and in my experience "Super Easy",though I have never met a highly educated one...Ninety minute drive is
several bridges too far...I wouldn't proceed in any way,if you don't click it is a waste of time and effort...If you do,you will want more and at three hours driving for each jump,the juice just aint worth the squeeze...The best place to find these Ladies is at a Philippino Church,there might be one close to you,if you know anyone in a relationship with one,ask him to get his Girl to find someone for you,she wont be offended.
Are they religious? She said something to me last night. I just thought she was just being cute

Told me "she was thankful for got we got talking"

I didn't really think anything of it at the time.
 

Scaramouche

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2008
Messages
4,440
Reaction score
1,558
Age
82
Location
Australia
Hi Captain Finn,
"Are they religious?",Compared to Anglos,very much so and devout too....One of their homelands problems is gross over population,this could be solved by birth control,but this along with divorce is suppressed by the Church...In their favour,they are not hypocrites no matter how poor they are,they will share with someone in need...Over here our Hospitals and Child care centres are full of them they have a great reputation.
 
Top