Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Woman from philippines

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Joined tinder matched with this woman originally from the Philippines.

It's a bit annoying actually because my search radius was set for about a 30 min drive in distance maximum.

I live close to the sea. Tinder didn't take into account the water only distance, she lives the opposite side of the channel, so it's more like a 1hoir 30 min hour drive to go around to the bridge.

It's a bit too much detail just making a point it's too far away too just be going on a impromptu casual date (which I would have already asked her on by now).

Normally I would disqualify someone that far away because of the distance, BUT I'm ridiculously into Asian women and they are really hard to meet in my area.

She works in the medical profession, quite a bit younger than me and super attractive.

She also seems super eager and into me.

I know women are not the same from specific cultures. Just wondering if any of you guys could give me a quick crash course on the culture, their expectations to dating and views expectations towards sex (as in sleeping with soon, or is the culture more reserved in general) e.t.c.

Definitely planning meeting up with her as soon as I logistically can despite the distance (which makes meeting up on a weekday after work impossible).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Filipinas tends to be more chaste and more conservative to sex usually. Don't know how the times have changed, but they tend to be. Expect to be invited to a couple of Filipino parties if you ever get into a relationship with her lol. Lots of Pansit, Lumpia and all that good stuff.
 

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pretty much function the same way as women from other places. nothing really different. lots of info if you are looking for an ltr. as your just looking for a date, just the same as others. s-ex is not any more or less guaranteed than other races.

if you have a closer choice that is also good, get the closer (less hassle) one.

if nothing better and you have the time, go check it out.
 

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Hi Captain Finn,
@plumber has it right....They are mostly very good Women and in my experience "Super Easy",though I have never met a highly educated one...Ninety minute drive is several bridges too far...I wouldn't proceed in any way,if you don't click it is a waste of time and effort...If you do,you will want more and at three hours driving for each jump,the juice just aint worth the squeeze...The best place to find these Ladies is at a Philippino Church,there might be one close to you,if you know anyone in a relationship with one,ask him to get his Girl to find someone for you,she wont be offended.
 

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Hi Captain Finn,
@plumber has it right....They are mostly very good Women and in my experience "Super Easy",though I have never met a highly educated one...Ninety minute drive is several bridges too far...I wouldn't proceed in any way,if you don't click it is a waste of time and effort...If you do,you will want more and at three hours driving for each jump,the juice just aint worth the squeeze...The best place to find these Ladies is at a Philippino Church,there might be one close to you,if you know anyone in a relationship with one,ask him to get his Girl to find someone for you,she wont be offended.
Sorry to say but my downstairs brain is in charge and taking the lead on this one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Captain Finn,
@plumber has it right....They are mostly very good Women and in my experience "Super Easy",though I have never met a highly educated one...Ninety minute drive is
several bridges too far...I wouldn't proceed in any way,if you don't click it is a waste of time and effort...If you do,you will want more and at three hours driving for each jump,the juice just aint worth the squeeze...The best place to find these Ladies is at a Philippino Church,there might be one close to you,if you know anyone in a relationship with one,ask him to get his Girl to find someone for you,she wont be offended.
Are they religious? She said something to me last night. I just thought she was just being cute

Told me "she was thankful for got we got talking"

I didn't really think anything of it at the time.
 

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Hi Captain Finn,
"Are they religious?",Compared to Anglos,very much so and devout too....One of their homelands problems is gross over population,this could be solved by birth control,but this along with divorce is suppressed by the Church...In their favour,they are not hypocrites no matter how poor they are,they will share with someone in need...Over here our Hospitals and Child care centres are full of them they have a great reputation.
 
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