Hello, I've been in a 2-year relationship with a girl that didn't want to have sex because she felt she wasn't ready yet [we did pretty much everything besides sex]. At the time I thought it was normal because not everybody is open or ready to do it at age 18 but then I've had 3 or 4 hook-ups that went well but the same situation kept happening. I've meditated on it but I can't find a reason. I'm pretty attractive so yeah... I don't know what I am doing wrong. So my question is, how do escalate a relationship into sex and what might be preventing one to not escalate into it.