"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Woman confessing to Sh*t Test

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The woman I'm currently in a LTR with (4 months now) out of the blue said this to me last night:

(The time she's referring to happened 4 months ago)

Her: "Remember the first time I came to visit you?"

Me: "Yeah."

Her: "And how when I asked where I'd be sleeping that night, you told me, 'I could either sleep in the chair or on the floor. As for me, I'm sleeping in my bed."

Me: "Yeah I remember that." (I really didn't remember, but I decided to play along)

Her: "I was testing you. You passed. If you had said anything other than that to me that night, you would have failed and I wouldn't have slept with you. When I got home the next day, I told my roommate what you said and she agreed that you passed."


After that, I just steered the conversation onto another topic.
I really didn't care that she was testing me.

The question is why would she, or any woman for that matter, confess to **** testing a man?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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808 said:
The woman I'm currently in a LTR with (4 months now) out of the blue said this to me last night:

(The time she's referring to happened 4 months ago)

Her: "Remember the first time I came to visit you?"

Me: "Yeah."

Her: "And how when I asked where I'd be sleeping that night, you told me, 'I could either sleep in the chair or on the floor. As for me, I'm sleeping in my bed."

Me: "Yeah I remember that." (I really didn't remember, but I decided to play along)

Her: "I was testing you. You passed. If you had said anything other than that to me that night, you would have failed and I wouldn't have slept with you. When I got home the next day, I told my roommate what you said and she agreed that you passed."


After that, I just steered the conversation onto another topic.
I really didn't care that she was testing me.

The question is why would she, or any woman for that matter, confess to **** testing a man?

It's another test.
It looks like you passed the second one too.
 

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Dante420 said:
shoulda said sumthing about testing her to, either way you passed round two
I actually thought about doing that to her this morning when she left. I'd rather wait a week or so and just say out of the blue:

"By the way, you haven't passed my test yet. But when you do, you'll know."
 

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Thats not a great **** test. Its more of a concious pre-planned test that she came up with her girlfriends. The real **** tests are a lot more sneaky and backhanded.

Hardcore **** tests are at least 50% subconcious anyway, she couldnt explain correctly if she tried.

Thats a made up story that she is trying to feed you to make herself seem selective and non-slutty. You could have said 'in my bed, slut' and if you worked the right emotions and gamed well she would have slept with you just as easily. You response was great anyhow, she is simply talking bs.

A girl saying 'yea i just said your friend was hot to see how you would react and how jealous and secure you are to increase or decrease my interest level in you'

or 'yea i just tried to throw a tantrum over nothing and blame you when you did nothing really wrong to see how you would react, whether you would crumble or not under pressure'

Now that^ would be awesome.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Treat her little game as a Sh!t Test itself and pass it by doing one of the following:

Chick: blah blah blah
Me: That's nice.
OR
I don't care.
OR
That's cute. (said sarcastically)
OR
Just change the subject.
 
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