"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Woman claims to be " to busy to call" or " don't have time for her self"

Getrichordie123

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I've met a woman on facebook who seems to be really nice we are far away from each other... Different countries different region...we have been speaking good ever since... But the only thing is i have never heard her voice and she have heard mine because i sent her a voice note. We met through online marketing but she shows interest in me because she calls me her " close friend" and she said that she " likes and trust me" but she never have time to call or is to shy to send a voice note... What do u guys think? Is she just bull****ting and know me as her " Facebook friend" and not her " actual friend" she has my number I have hers... But I can't call her because of the phone call cost price to a foreign country... Should I just move on and stop speaking to this woman? I have also seen she been telling 2 guys ' I MISS OUR CHATS" on Facebook like she told me when I stopped messaging her much... Do u guys she is an attention seeker? Or just a weird woman who approach people nice on Facebook?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Southbound29

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Dude, do us all a favor and break that $hit up into paragraphs. I just skimmed through it, didn't even attempt the whole thing. From what I did read , I'd say bail out now. There's no way this will end well for either one of you. Especially you.
 

Getrichordie123

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Dude, do us all a favor and break that $hit up into paragraphs. I just skimmed through it, didn't even attempt the whole thing. From what I did read , I'd say bail out now. There's no way this will end well for either one of you. Especially you.
Alright I made it shorter man... I just want to know because she shows interest but she won't call me won't send me a voice note or anything and always saying she is to busy... So I stopped messaging her and she was like " wow u never replied " I stopped messaging her because I'm thinking of cutting her off completely without saying a thing
 

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I've met a woman on facebook who seems to be really nice we are far away from each other... Different countries different region...we have been speaking good ever since... But the only thing is i have never heard her voice and she have heard mine because i sent her a voice note. We met through online marketing but she shows interest in me because she calls me her " close friend" and she said that she " likes and trust me" but she never have time to call or is to shy to send a voice note... What do u guys think? Is she just bull****ting and know me as her " Facebook friend" and not her " actual friend" she has my number I have hers... But I can't call her because of the phone call cost price to a foreign country... Should I just move on and stop speaking to this woman? I have also seen she been telling 2 guys ' I MISS OUR CHATS" on Facebook like she told me when I stopped messaging her much... Do u guys she is an attention seeker? Or just a weird woman who approach people nice on Facebook?
I think you are the attention seeker. I mean you two live in foreign countries, so what is the point? How is this going to lead to a good result or getting laid for you? It isn't. Stop wasting time on this BS and go find some women that live in your city.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Von

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Sounds a scam
 

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It must be a scam or she would talk with you a few minutes via Skype or the phone. Run away.....
 
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