“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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One thing I m not sure on in the DJ approach to life.
Is it worth trying to make female friends?

My experience is that they tend to drop u once they be got a boyfriend.

Social proof seems to say yes u should. On the other hand they re flakier than I d accept in my male friends.

And b interested in yr thoughts on the special case of being friends with Exes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ubercat said:
One thing I m not sure on in the DJ approach to life.
Is it worth trying to make female friends?

My experience is that they tend to drop u once they be got a boyfriend.

Social proof seems to say yes u should. On the other hand they re flakier than I d accept in my male friends.

And b interested in yr thoughts on the special case of being friends with Exes.
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They can be a friend with you in ways other than sex and intimacy...

But no you shouldn't be making friends with ones you have a strong attraction for, and they keep you friendzoned. It's not good for your mojo.
 
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which gets back to Exes. One from an LTR got in contact to swap some stuff. Not looking to get back - I pulled the pin We were good friends. Be interested in your experiences. Diff dynamic with a LTR g/f - you do a lot of things for her. You wouldn't want to repeat that.
 
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which gets back to Exes. One from an LTR got in contact to swap some stuff. Not looking to get back - I pulled the pin We were good friends. Be interested in your experiences. Diff dynamic with a LTR g/f - you do a lot of things for her. You wouldn't want to repeat that.
 
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I don't personally think that having female friends returns a lot of value, unless they're FWB of course. Although I enjoy the company of women and their feminine energy, if they're not willing to have sex with you I don't see much point in hanging around with them.

As for exes, I have no problem at all being civil, or even friendly with my exes. But I don't hang around with them.

I do think that female friends are good for one thing: If you have a lot of female friends, they can make for a good smokescreen if you are looking to cheat. If you have the kind of relationship where opposite sex friends are fine, or even routine, you could bang certain women and if your girlfriend complains, you can say "Oh, she's just a friend". This isn't my style, but I know a lot of guys around here are into cheating, so there you go.

Women can also use male friends to camouflage their cheating, by the way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ubercat said:
My experience is that they tend to drop u once they be got a boyfriend.
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Some do and some don't. It really depends on their level of interest in you.

And b interested in yr thoughts on the special case of being friends with Exes.
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The only way you can be friends with an ex is if you are completely 100% over her. If you have absolutely no desire to fvck her, then all of it is in your favor.
 
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Thanks Guys

I'm already hunting unicorns. Think I'll leave the purple ones alone. Odd had lots of female friends when I was in NZ - still got some of them 10 years later. Here in Oz they seem very transactional - i.e. wanting to profit on every deal not play the average. I'll DX her stuff.
 
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You can't really be friends with women. Either you want them or they want you. You could become friends with an average looking girl who you would not fvck but chances are she wants you.
 
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mangotot said:
You can't really be friends with women. Either you want them or they want you. You could become friends with an average looking girl who you would not fvck but chances are she wants you.
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You can bang her occasionally as a friend. You don't treat your friends like $hit do you? Just be honest about this is going no where and it's mutual pleasure in sex.

But do you really think the one you try to make your woman has to give you "butterflies"? Many of us in real LTR's know that doesn't last, but good sex and loyalty can.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd say you can be friends with women.

But you have to have NO attraction to them whatsoever and it depends on the chick.

Most female friends are a waste of time, they want something or they are you friend because of XYZ.

Friends with the Ex- I think you can be polite and pleasant but being friends- not if you ever shared an emotional connection. It's never healthy.
 
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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
I always feel "used" after I hang out with them unless I sought them out first out of boredom
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Holy shìt, that's so on-point! Couldn't agree more.

Listen to the guys above. Buddies for truckin, females for fûckin.
 
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