Woman are not as loyal as you think: Must Read!

[spiegel549]

I have been reading a lot of recent posts on cheating, and just a few days ago one of my best friends found out he has been cheated on by his girlfriend of eight years. It made me reflect on a past job I had for over 4 years and I wanted to share my experience with all of you.

I have been in the entertainment industry since I was a kid. A few years back my job was "Cruise Director" for one of the major cruise lines that still run today. That job is basically the boss who ran/created/managed all the entertainment for the ship you were assigned to.

I was the face you saw when you first got onto the ship and turned on your television welcoming you aboard the cruise. I was the voice you heard all day/week long giving you a run down of the days activities and our next destination. I introduced the shows, I interviewed guests, I ran the theatre shows on board the ship etc. etc. It was a 24/7 GO GO GO type of job, but I loved it because I was basically a cruise ship celebrity.

This was the big shocker for me I couldn't believe

I could not believe the amount of women that were on vacation who were willing to cheat on there boyfriends, husbands, and even FIANCE. Guys I am talking some major numbers here.

Every sunday around 2,800 guest would get off & roughly 2,800 would get on. All year long. I met thousands of people.

Because I was the face of all the entertainment I had women from all over the country that wanted to sleep with me. I am not blowing smoke up you butts either I am just giving you straight facts from the experience.

I had women from all over the country say to me "my boyfriends not here!"
I had women married from all over the country say to me "my husbands not here!"

One broad I will never forget is she approached me at one of the bars and literally said "My fiancee is in the casino and we are on our honeymoon and I really want to go back to your cabin and party with you..." ON HER HONEYMOON!!! LOL...

I really wanted to share this with you guys because I experienced something that a very rare few get to experience.

An extremely extremely HUGE number of women out there....CHEAT. Almost every other woman I met, and fellow cruise members met (talking thousands between me and my staff) shared stories with me about taken women CHEATING and not giving a crap. There on vacation and they don't care!

I am sharing this with you all because I hate to see guys be abused by women. I can't stress enough to listen to what some of these good DJ's say on this site, and APPLY IT. You must absorb the guidance they are giving you and really try to apply it.

I still make TONS of mistakes, but ZERO tolerance for these broads BS and ZERO tolerance for the games.

I don't know how to leave off but just know that women are not as innocent as they seem. Its not always the guys who are pigs and cheaters. WOMEN are just as bad if not WORSE then men.

-Based on 4 years of experience aboard the ships.

Feel free to share thoughts or comments to help encourage other members on this site!

 

[TheSlasher]

Do you think it's got something to do with ethnicity? Have you observed anything common among all these women? Mode of dressing? Way of speaking? Nationality? The look in their eyes?

 

[Redwood]

Nothing new, tbh.

It's been explained time and time again with factual evidence.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I've been on quite a few cruises myself OP, and I've seen and been a part of that as well. I made a post about it on here, maybe I'll dig it up. I seemed to witness the best looking ones didn't cheat, while they're lower ended brethren, the 6's-8's were all over the board. Maybe the hottest ones did, they just kept it more sly, and saved themselves for the cruise directors....

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=124040

Over 50% of married women cheat

that's MARRIED women.

We are CWAF though and women only cheat when the man deserves it because he didn't make her IL(which he has total control over) high enough...women don't like casual hypergamy and multiple partners... LOL.

Pairs, that article says that only 50% of women cheat. According to some on here, it's a lot higher than that.

What 50% are your women in? I know where mine are. Stick with me, I'll show you the way

 

[spiegel549]

I've been on quite a few cruises myself OP, and I've seen and been a part of that as well. I made a post about it on here, maybe I'll dig it up. I seemed to witness the best looking ones didn't cheat, while they're lower ended brethren, the 6's-8's were all over the board. Maybe the hottest ones did, they just kept it more sly, and saved themselves for the cruise directors....




Pairs, that article says that only 50% of women cheat. According to some on here, it's a lot higher than that.

What 50% are your women in? I know where mine are. Stick with me, I'll show you the way

Personally myself I tried to aim for ones that I was really attracted to. My job was extremely time consuming and had staff that looked up to me for guidance so I couldn't be a wild man ho but I still got with plenty lol.

I personally wouldn't go any lower then a 7. There were so many women on each weeks cruise that I waited to come across one that was a 8 or 9.

I know this is not NEW news to most of you but my best friends girlfriend of 8 years was dating another guy for 9 weeks towards the end and he had no idea. SHE WAS SLY AS A FOX. Real low key, almost like a professional Actress.

Over 50% of married women cheat

that's MARRIED women.

We are CWAF though and women only cheat when the man deserves it because he didn't make her IL(which he has total control over) high enough...women don't like casual hypergamy and multiple partners... LOL.

Exactly my point. I want to stress to the guys that aren't quite on there A game to show them that they NEED to be. I feel if you are handling your business and acting as a man should be that your girl won't cheat on you...

A lot of guys (guilty myself) start off GREAT at the start of meeting someone then slowly let there guard down and stop playing the game that originally attracted the broad to begin with.

I stress with on myself and everyone else to study, learn, absorb this material and APPLY it. STICK TO IT. FOLLOW IT THROUGH.

A lot of women are dogs, and its finally sinking into my head more recently.

 

[In2theGame]

I know the truth in what OP is saying 100% because I have lived it and seen it. In general i dont like to go into too much about all the deceiving sh!t I have experienced with Women and what they do because it would just make a lot of guys paranoid about their GFs/Wives and probably make others upset or have people calling me bitter and jaded but the reality is, Unfortunately, Is that the real red pill is a nasty horse sized pill and once you enter the matrix, theres no going back. I learned the hard way in my early 20's. Now that I have been single for the past 3 and a half years, Plus the fact that a huge amount of women think I am hot, I personally know what they are willing to do if the circumstances are right. Women with boyfriends, Husbands, Fiances have let me Fvck them or at the very least, id be able to put my hand on their azzes, maybe get some feels on their t!ts or make out. I have had Women out on dates Smile, Wink or even approach me while their date or BF has gone to the bathroom. When the guy would come back and see their girl flirting with me, i can see the deep pissed off look and the reason they probably think twice saying something to me is because I'm very muscular in size and lean. The sad part about all this is that it makes me depressed to know what these women secretly do and i wonder... What will my future GF/Wife be doing behind my back?. Sure one may question and rationalize "Well, these are probably cheap and low class type of Women"..... I can tell you right now... The Women im talking about are Lawyers, Doctors, semi Celeb in the NYC area, Wall St type upscale Women. Then you have your regulars like college type girls..etc It doesnt matter, they have either cheated with me or with my friends. My friends have loads of stories about Girls they have pounded out with Hubbys and BF's, Its fvcking sad honestly to know all this.

I have plenty of stories of how SNEAKY they can be, its almost unbelievable. All the while these are the same women who claim "I am not like that" "I would NEVER cheat" and best of all "I HATE men who lie" lol when they themselves are toe to toe with the devil in terms of lies and deception. One theory that some guys have is, I will date a fatty that wont cheat on me, Although a great reduction would happen in terms of cheating risk, One of my female friends who is on the very heavy side... you would think ..Nah she aint gonna cheat on her husband, She has admitted to me that she has slept with her coworker and even flirts with me through text. As a matter a fact she texted me last night and i could probably get a BJ from her at a snap of my finger if i wanted to but i wont do it AND to top it off she is one of those "Nice" types that you couldnt imagine her doing something like that. That makes me think deeply if a fatty can do it like that, What risk is there with a HB8/9 that has an army of orbiters? This is why i am so against the posts that claim its ok for their GF/Wives hang out with other men, To me, from my experience would just be asking for it!

In this day and age, Morals, Respect and commitment from women is completely out the window and with the increase in feminism, double standard "equality", Facebook/Instagram "selfies" validation attention Wh0res, Twitter, Tinder, POF etc... its just too much. Even recently in the Matures section a guy made a post that his wife is leaving him because she met someone on twitter.... How fvcked up is that!? Its ridiculous but i can believe it because my ex began the whole cheating thing online too. Knowing what i know, it terrifies to me commit myself to a LTR once again and I wont let myself get burned again because i know the deep emotional and psychological torment and disaster it can bring into a Man's life. I went through a depression and anxiety. My best friends father, who is the most awesome guy you could ever meet, I love the guy as if he was my father... He did everything right and he aint no "AFC" has loads of money, took care of the kids, the bills, cars and helped his Wife with whatever she wanted.... One day he found out she was Fvcking a guy she met in Queens and bringing him to the house while he was at work. My friend told me he was so hurt that he almost went to buy a gun to kill her and anyone who got in his way, Thankfully is didnt go that route and went to counseling at a church to get through it. Women dont realize what they do to Men that really love them. Same thing happened to my best friend and my other friends who really loved their GF's/Wives. Which quickly makes me think of a friend i grew up with in Brooklyn... He married his sweetheart... The guy is a down to earth dude, Has a solid employed position with a highly reputable well know tech company.. Turns out his Wife was banging a guy she met in the apartment building. When she would tell him that she was stepping out to the store or to see her friends... she was going to the next floor to the guys apartment. You could probably guess how hurt he was... anyway....

This is why i am ruthless with Women today, I am a new man who will put a Woman in her place before you can fvcking blink. Is every single Woman like this... I dont think so or i surely hope not but make no mistake... When you least expect it can happen so protect your hearts gentlemen and play it smart. As the Bible itself mentions that in the last days, True love will be hard to find and it certainly seems that way lately.

 

[In2theGame]

Now that im thinking about this topic i want to mention one more thing that i found kind of "Funny" When i think back to it. My step sister who is pretty attractive, years ago I was in the living room playing Xbox (the original one) and she was sitting on the couch talking to her Boyfriend.. they started arguing and she started crying... I mean freakin sobbing telling him how much she loves him.... After a damn hour and a half of that phone conversation... Later that night she went outside to meet a guy she met on AOL (when chat rooms first started).. I looked out the window and there she was making out with him lol... Hours before she was sobbing saying "I love you".... You cant just make this stuff up,... Oh man i swear...

On a side note.. i was really young and since she wasnt "blood" she let me suck her t!ts lmao Im being 100% serious. I was too young to know any better to do more but oh well...

 

[VladPatton]

Damn. The power their snatches contain is depressing.

 

[JohnChops]

Another ****ing thread about cheating? Jesus effing Christ, if you're so much of a god damn ***** to stay with a girl who cheats on you, MANY OF YOU HERE WOULD DONT LIE, then you deserve it.

We're all human, we make mistakes, we do bad thugs because it's ****ING FUN!

If a girl cheats on you and you're married/dating well then time to say bye bye isn't it?

Also I find it funny how they're so many cynical people on here preaching that 99.99999998772% of women are sluts, wh0res, cheat, had 8 dudes deep inside her last night etc, my god no wonder a lot of you can't enjoy women, you're brainwashed by the radicals that post here!

Bottom line: who cares <---- this mentality wins in life. (Besides a select few ordeals)

 

[foreverAFC]

well you probably look like Ryan Seacrest, so im sure that helps, but yeah most women will cheat, even the ones you would never imagine doing it

 

[SAYNO]

Its amazing what women will admit and open up to once they feel comfortable enough with you!

Every married female that I have been friends with, have admitted to cheating, (yes 100 percent) and YES they used the normal age old worn out excuses and self victimization banter that is typical with the female mind (or lack thereof). And the ones that stayed married all admitted that their husbands never found out.

So, I have come to the conclusion that most (all?) men in relationships with westernized women will eventually be cheated on at some point in the relationship..

Do not I repeat do not give your heart or you WILL regret it, marriage is for fools, play at your own risk.

 

[spiegel549]

Another ****ing thread about cheating? Jesus effing Christ, if you're so much of a god damn ***** to stay with a girl who cheats on you, MANY OF YOU HERE WOULD DONT LIE, then you deserve it.

We're all human, we make mistakes, we do bad thugs because it's ****ING FUN!

If a girl cheats on you and you're married/dating well then time to say bye bye isn't it?

Also I find it funny how they're so many cynical people on here preaching that 99.99999998772% of women are sluts, wh0res, cheat, had 8 dudes deep inside her last night etc, my god no wonder a lot of you can't enjoy women, you're brainwashed by the radicals that post here!

Bottom line: who cares <---- this mentality wins in life. (Besides a select few ordeals)

I get what your saying, but whats easy for you is not easy for the new comers on this site. I have been reading a lot of cheating threads so I figured it would be a good idea to share my experience. I feel you though brother.

I know the truth in what OP is saying 100% because I have lived it and seen it.

Brother its crazy. I am over it and it doesn't nearly bother me as much as it did in the past. Reading all these posts about guys asking question after question about the same broad....SHES NO GOOD GUYS!

If a broad is into you, if her interest level is high, she will not confuse you, you will not have to chase her, she will respond to your texts, she will want to meet you, you will not have to over think every detail. It will just flow smoothly

Women are a dime a dozen!

 

[JoeMarron]

I'm not surprised at all by this. Most relationships are a joke. I plan on giving monogamy one solid chance. I found a good chick, screened the fvck outta her, went ahead and married her. I figured I might as well do it now rather then wait until I become even more jaded. She gets ONE CHANCE. I'm giving her all the benefit of the doubt. I'm holding out on the hope that there's still a decent woman out there who isn't a slave to her desires. If she pulls some sh!t like this then I'm done, completely. I will become a ruthless mfker and women will enter my world entirely on my terms. I will never agree to monogamy again. Women will be used as masturbation objects unless they prove to be decent, then they get the honor of being my main chick. I don't understand how a man can get cheated on several times by multiple women yet still be foolish enough to put himself in the same situation.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I really in general don't give a ****, because most people were brainwashed by disney movies, television and their parents about marriage. Everyone has entertained the though of cheating and most have done it since the beginning of time. Relationships are there for support they are not the end all be all of anyones life. I think relationships are for being who are content with their medicore lifes. Meet new women, bang them and move like a boat in the ocean. All this lovie dovie crap is annoying

 

[Jaylan]

Having never cheated, and knowing for damn sure Im too loyal to ever cheat myself, Id like to think theres a similar woman out there. Most people are selfish individuals who are slaves to the wrong impulses though. When Im crazy about a girl, my initial impulse is to shut other women down when they flirt with me.

I dunno if Ill ever be married, and sometimes I wonder if Ill ever exclusively commit to one women...but I do know how rare a real connection with a woman is. And such a real connection with someone who "gets" you is rare...so Id never betray the trust we built with cheating.

I know theres gotta be other women out there who think like me. Because lets be real...Im not rare in this mindset. But see...just because such an honorable quality woman exists, does not mean we are right for one another. Now all these other factors come into play...our locations...ages...likes...dislikes...styles of communication...relationship desires...goals...etc...etc. There are just great women in the world that Ill never meet, or that I may not be compatible with for whatever reason.

Theres just a lot that goes into finding a good mate that fits you...so when I sometimes sit and think about the things I look for in a woman, I accept the long wait I will have ahead of me. Ive been single for almost 5 years...and Ive only had 2 real girlfriends in my life (not long relationships either). It feels lonely sometimes...but Im actually glad I havent dealt with as much BS in my 20s that many of my peers have dealt with.

I dont take commitment lightly...and I only commit when I really see long term potential with a girl. This only happened at ages 18 and 22. I enjoy all the ups and downs my romantic life has had because its taught me a lot. I cant imagine the bad relationship situations Id have had to deal with if more of my 20s was spent in relationships.

I am grateful for my heartbreaks in my youth because it made me stick by my decision to stay single, learn about myself, and really learn about women and relationships until I found a great girl...and when I was ready to be with a great girl. Im not sure if that girl is out there, but I know Im still not ready to meet her right now anyways.

 

[FortunateSon]

Loyalty is a very rare trait in humans irrespective of gender.

 

[logicallefty]

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=124040

Over 50% of married women cheat

that's MARRIED women.

We are CWAF though and women only cheat when the man deserves it because he didn't make her IL(which he has total control over) high enough...women don't like casual hypergamy and multiple partners... LOL.

EDIT: 10 post limit

P&V,

It says 50% of MARRIED women cheat. Imagine how much more non-married women cheat...sickening.

I'm not at all shocked at this statistic. I agree that it's probably even higher.

What I am shocked about is to see the main stream media admit to it.

 

[GS750]

This reminds me of an episode of Taxicab Confessions from years back on HBO. These two 20 something girls are in the cab yacking and the one gets a call from some dude. They tell the cabbie to pull over, the girl who go the phone call pulls off her engagement ring, hands it to her friend, and goes into an apartment building to blow a guy real quick. Cheating wh*re!

 

[Greasy Pig]

I once walked a married home from the club. When we got to the driveway, she grabbed me, pushed me back on the bonnet of her husband's car, blew me and swallowed the gravy. Then went inside to her husband. Fvcking ridiculous.

 

[In2theGame]

I once walked a married home from the club. When we got to the driveway, she grabbed me, pushed me back on the bonnet of her husband's car, blew me and swallowed the gravy. Then went inside to her husband. Fvcking ridiculous.

Thats just sad man. I have a female friend who told me that she had sex with a guy she knew from a previous job and afterwards went home to her Husband and kids like nothing ever happened. I asked her "how do you act like nothing happened?" She told me "I dunno, i just act like the normal wifey". I said "What if he wants to have sex?" She said that she just lays there and lets him finish then roll over and go to sleep.