"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Woah, how did I do this?

lonewolf17

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I met a girl in a class, went back to her apartment, and got close to her on the couch.

Using kino progression I slowly went from light touching, to arm around shoulder, to having her laying against me, to my arms around her, etc.

Now here is the wierd/awesome part. Over the course of an hour or two I slowly would do things like simply stroke her leg, then move to her arm and stroke her arm, then move to her belly and gently caress it.

Well I began to notice she was tensing up at times when I would focus on certain areas. For example, when I would do a gentle ring around her belly then apply preasure, she would tense up, or when I'd stroke just below the ribs and then apply preasure, you could feel her whole body tighten up.

Before I knew it, I pretty much had this girl withering under my fingers, and I didn't even so much as touched her breasts or thighs. I felt like I had a girl on the verge of orgasm and I hadn't even touched her most sensitve areas.

Soooo, what exactly happened there? And how can I repeat it? Is this just a really sensitve girl, or is this something I can duplicate in future situations?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phyzzle

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Any area that's rarely touched or exposed can be an erogenous zone. Try gently rubbing behind her ears (like a puppy!).
 

mcs

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i had similar situations. i think that this happens when girl is feeling really heightened emotions. that wasn't your first few hours to interact, right ? the girl had it long before you got there. you just didn't know that.
(as far as i know....)
 
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