"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Woah, how did I do this?

lonewolf17

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I met a girl in a class, went back to her apartment, and got close to her on the couch.

Using kino progression I slowly went from light touching, to arm around shoulder, to having her laying against me, to my arms around her, etc.

Now here is the wierd/awesome part. Over the course of an hour or two I slowly would do things like simply stroke her leg, then move to her arm and stroke her arm, then move to her belly and gently caress it.

Well I began to notice she was tensing up at times when I would focus on certain areas. For example, when I would do a gentle ring around her belly then apply preasure, she would tense up, or when I'd stroke just below the ribs and then apply preasure, you could feel her whole body tighten up.

Before I knew it, I pretty much had this girl withering under my fingers, and I didn't even so much as touched her breasts or thighs. I felt like I had a girl on the verge of orgasm and I hadn't even touched her most sensitve areas.

Soooo, what exactly happened there? And how can I repeat it? Is this just a really sensitve girl, or is this something I can duplicate in future situations?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Phyzzle

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Any area that's rarely touched or exposed can be an erogenous zone. Try gently rubbing behind her ears (like a puppy!).
 

mcs

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i had similar situations. i think that this happens when girl is feeling really heightened emotions. that wasn't your first few hours to interact, right ? the girl had it long before you got there. you just didn't know that.
(as far as i know....)
 
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