"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Witty response to "do what"

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If you ask a girl to hang out and she says do what, whats a good witty response I can say back.


Made the mistake of saying chill and have fun, I guess she took that a bit sexually and isnt responding back.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JLW

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...you don't really need a witty response. Say what you're going to do.

for example: (if this is a first date)

"go get coffee"

"come get a drink with me on Friday"

"go to my friend's party this Saturday"


...etc.
 

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She just messaged me and said im sooo bored, so i figured she wanted to hang out..alright true, thanks for the answers bro. Anyway I can fix this to still hang out with her?
 

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Plus we are also planning on going to halloween party this weekend, this was just a out of no where random message tonight
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mantis Toboggan

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You don't need witty responses to "Do what?"

Saying that you're gonna chill, drink, or watch a movie should be enough.

If she thinks that "Chill" is too sexual then she's a f--kin idiot.
 

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heres a witty response that i use that always gets a laugh, hopefully you dont over use.

me- R u ready to get into some trouble this weekend?
girl- What are we going to do?
me- Bible studies (obviously they know im joking)
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
You don't need witty responses to "Do what?"

Saying that you're gonna chill, drink, or watch a movie should be enough.

If she thinks that "Chill" is too sexual then she's a f--kin idiot.
Thats my guess brotha, not sure. After I said that she didnt respond, so that would be my only guess..and yea shes a bit ditzy haha but I like it ;)
 

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Don't ask a girl to "hang out". It's weak and directionless; female traits.

That's why she's asking you "To do what?". She wants you to lead.

The phrase "hang out" is weak, weak, weak.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Be specific about what you want to do, so she knows it will be worth her while to hang out with you. For all she knows, you want her to come over and watch you play WoW for two hours.
 

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I like saying "we will go on an adventure" or "be adventure partners/buddies".

It gets them intrigued and gives you room to decide what you want to do; remember it’s about what YOU want to do, the girl is just joining you on your awesome life.
 

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Crissco said:
Made the mistake of saying chill and have fun, I guess she took that a bit sexually and isnt responding back.
Did you not mean to be sexual?
 

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loveshogun said:
Did you not mean to be sexual?
My intentions in my head were lol Didnt want to bring up anything sexual just yet, at least untill we hang out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You're worrying too much about how you're coming across. Just relax and have a little fun with her. Be a smartass.

I probably would have said something like:

"I figure we'll start with an orgy and if there's any time afterward, maybe a little conversation."
 

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yeah, I recently got asked this question in the form of "what are you going to do?" and i said "be awesome u know the usual" and she responded with "Lol and also be modest. what are you doing tomorrow night?" to which i should've answered "you" or "drugs", but instead, i said "i don't have plans yet" and she hasn't responded yet. that's the perfect opportunity to ask to join her on something (i've taken this girl out on a date before). when a woman gives you excuses it's not because the text is bad, it's because the girl isn't interested.

look at atom smasher's quote. provided that you have basic social skills, it's completely true and it totally applies to this situation. outside of some VERY basic things, there is no such thing as text game.
 
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