"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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[With video] what did this guy do wrong?

JohnnyStrabler

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at around 5:46 pay close attention to that Edward Norton looking guy (when he played a cop in Pride and Glory lolz seriously look at him)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBOtj1RmaUE

why didnt he get an approach tell? what did he do wrong? why wasnt he part of that group?

Now I am all scared that would happen to me as girls look away when I see them (as opposed to smiling at me, unless I say hi) CURSE THIS OVERLY MASCULINE VISAGE!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JohnnyStrabler

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It seems like he already got rejected even before he opened his mouth O_O

scary stuff....now my approach anxiety is even more elevated
 

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LOL, that guy does look exactly like Edward Norton. He should use that to his advantage. Instead, he comes off as a shy creeper.

Good lord, at 7:35.... "Those are some TURRRrrrible teeth, Ernie" - Charles Barkley
 

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He stood there and didn't say a word. No sh!t he didn't get anywhere..
 

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He didn't say anything. That was the issue.

Something I used to do in the past...Never again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JohnnyStrabler

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So basically you have to do the move first? And not to wait for an approach tell from the girl, unlike what the video said?

Great video on body language BTW, anybody knows more?
 
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