"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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[With video] what did this guy do wrong?

JohnnyStrabler

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at around 5:46 pay close attention to that Edward Norton looking guy (when he played a cop in Pride and Glory lolz seriously look at him)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBOtj1RmaUE

why didnt he get an approach tell? what did he do wrong? why wasnt he part of that group?

Now I am all scared that would happen to me as girls look away when I see them (as opposed to smiling at me, unless I say hi) CURSE THIS OVERLY MASCULINE VISAGE!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It seems like he already got rejected even before he opened his mouth O_O

scary stuff....now my approach anxiety is even more elevated
 

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LOL, that guy does look exactly like Edward Norton. He should use that to his advantage. Instead, he comes off as a shy creeper.

Good lord, at 7:35.... "Those are some TURRRrrrible teeth, Ernie" - Charles Barkley
 

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He stood there and didn't say a word. No sh!t he didn't get anywhere..
 

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He didn't say anything. That was the issue.

Something I used to do in the past...Never again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So basically you have to do the move first? And not to wait for an approach tell from the girl, unlike what the video said?

Great video on body language BTW, anybody knows more?
 
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