"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok, so im texting this girl, who is into me, and she asked me to go to a party this saturday, y said : ´´maybe, what do you promise´´ and she said ´´i dont know, ill tell you what, you get 3 wishes, ´´ She said that she will grant them but she wants to know them now
So any suggestions
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mmm if you tell her 3 of your actual wishes, you'll be playing into her frame, which is that she is the prize, and that she has the power to fulfill your "wishes" or to deny them.

What I would do is to wish for the excact opposite of what she would expect you to wish for, something which sets the frame that SHE will be pursuing YOU, that you are ABOVE her petty tricks. Something like "cook me dinner," "buy me presents," or "do my homework."

If you say anything REMOTELY sexual or date related, she'll know she has power over you, and you'll be putting her on a pedestal.
 
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mmm if you tell her 3 of your actual wishes, you'll be playing into her frame, which is that she is the prize, and that she has the power to fulfill your "wishes" or to deny them.

What I would do is to wish for the excact opposite of what she would expect you to wish for, something which sets the frame that SHE will be pursuing YOU, that you are ABOVE her petty tricks. Something like "cook me dinner," "buy me presents," or "do my homework."

If you say anything REMOTELY sexual or date related, she'll know she has power over you, and you'll be putting her on a pedestal.
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888,I wish I knew half as much as you do right now when I was 17.

I don't know how you obtained all this knowledge at such a young age,but dude,it's impressive.


+1 rep.
 
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Igetit! said:
888,I wish I knew half as much as you do right now when I was 17.

I don't know how you obtained all this knowledge at such a young age,but dude,it's impressive.


+1 rep.
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All of this.
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do you get all kind of girls at your school? to know this stuff at 17 would have been awesome.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oooohhh myyy 888...your soooooo smart:flowers: ...shlob shlob shlob *gag*:crazy:


Man, if he gets half as many people at his school sucking his d1ck as there is people on this thread sucking his d1ck, I don't know how he would find time to fit it all in.
 
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888 said:
mmm if you tell her 3 of your actual wishes, you'll be playing into her frame, which is that she is the prize, and that she has the power to fulfill your "wishes" or to deny them.

What I would do is to wish for the excact opposite of what she would expect you to wish for, something which sets the frame that SHE will be pursuing YOU, that you are ABOVE her petty tricks. Something like "cook me dinner," "buy me presents," or "do my homework."

If you say anything REMOTELY sexual or date related, she'll know she has power over you, and you'll be putting her on a pedestal.
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Couldnt have said it any better.

Never give in to a girls demands (referring to how she wants to know them now), instead, turn it into a joke (like what 888 suggested), or just play around with her words/dont give her a straight answer (ex: Noo I cant tell you them now they're big secrets, you'll just have to wait and find out).

EDIT: and I think someone is a little jealous...
 
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Jealous?

BWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA!!!!!!!:crackup:

Silly boy, if you only knew....:rolleyes:

BTW, I think we have been over this once or twice. I don't really care what a bunch of internet virgins and posers like you think of me. Hush child, and go back to spanking your monkey.
 
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awwww you guys

what yogurt said was right, even though he DID kind of say it in a mean way. its probably best not to inflate my ego since i'm a ****y enough bastard as it is :)

we all have our strengths and weaknesses. we're all here to learn and get better; I'm just passing on what I have learned. I WAS taught by the best after all! (i/e, from you folks haha)


Juan! any update on the girl?

EDIT: oh and lol @ thedude. a few, not THAT many. I'm not a wh0re you know :D
 
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888 said:
mmm if you tell her 3 of your actual wishes, you'll be playing into her frame, which is that she is the prize, and that she has the power to fulfill your "wishes" or to deny them.

What I would do is to wish for the excact opposite of what she would expect you to wish for, something which sets the frame that SHE will be pursuing YOU, that you are ABOVE her petty tricks. Something like "cook me dinner," "buy me presents," or "do my homework."

If you say anything REMOTELY sexual or date related, she'll know she has power over you, and you'll be putting her on a pedestal.
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Case closed right here! Couldn't have said it better.

I wish I woulda knew this sh*t at 16. I wish to be successful in the music biz. I wish that my family still loves me after I make millions.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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