"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ok, so im texting this girl, who is into me, and she asked me to go to a party this saturday, y said : ´´maybe, what do you promise´´ and she said ´´i dont know, ill tell you what, you get 3 wishes, ´´ She said that she will grant them but she wants to know them now
So any suggestions
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mmm if you tell her 3 of your actual wishes, you'll be playing into her frame, which is that she is the prize, and that she has the power to fulfill your "wishes" or to deny them.

What I would do is to wish for the excact opposite of what she would expect you to wish for, something which sets the frame that SHE will be pursuing YOU, that you are ABOVE her petty tricks. Something like "cook me dinner," "buy me presents," or "do my homework."

If you say anything REMOTELY sexual or date related, she'll know she has power over you, and you'll be putting her on a pedestal.
 
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mmm if you tell her 3 of your actual wishes, you'll be playing into her frame, which is that she is the prize, and that she has the power to fulfill your "wishes" or to deny them.

What I would do is to wish for the excact opposite of what she would expect you to wish for, something which sets the frame that SHE will be pursuing YOU, that you are ABOVE her petty tricks. Something like "cook me dinner," "buy me presents," or "do my homework."

If you say anything REMOTELY sexual or date related, she'll know she has power over you, and you'll be putting her on a pedestal.
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888,I wish I knew half as much as you do right now when I was 17.

I don't know how you obtained all this knowledge at such a young age,but dude,it's impressive.


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Igetit! said:
888,I wish I knew half as much as you do right now when I was 17.

I don't know how you obtained all this knowledge at such a young age,but dude,it's impressive.


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All of this.
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do you get all kind of girls at your school? to know this stuff at 17 would have been awesome.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oooohhh myyy 888...your soooooo smart:flowers: ...shlob shlob shlob *gag*:crazy:


Man, if he gets half as many people at his school sucking his d1ck as there is people on this thread sucking his d1ck, I don't know how he would find time to fit it all in.
 
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888 said:
mmm if you tell her 3 of your actual wishes, you'll be playing into her frame, which is that she is the prize, and that she has the power to fulfill your "wishes" or to deny them.

What I would do is to wish for the excact opposite of what she would expect you to wish for, something which sets the frame that SHE will be pursuing YOU, that you are ABOVE her petty tricks. Something like "cook me dinner," "buy me presents," or "do my homework."

If you say anything REMOTELY sexual or date related, she'll know she has power over you, and you'll be putting her on a pedestal.
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Couldnt have said it any better.

Never give in to a girls demands (referring to how she wants to know them now), instead, turn it into a joke (like what 888 suggested), or just play around with her words/dont give her a straight answer (ex: Noo I cant tell you them now they're big secrets, you'll just have to wait and find out).

EDIT: and I think someone is a little jealous...
 
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Jealous?

BWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA!!!!!!!:crackup:

Silly boy, if you only knew....:rolleyes:

BTW, I think we have been over this once or twice. I don't really care what a bunch of internet virgins and posers like you think of me. Hush child, and go back to spanking your monkey.
 
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awwww you guys

what yogurt said was right, even though he DID kind of say it in a mean way. its probably best not to inflate my ego since i'm a ****y enough bastard as it is :)

we all have our strengths and weaknesses. we're all here to learn and get better; I'm just passing on what I have learned. I WAS taught by the best after all! (i/e, from you folks haha)


Juan! any update on the girl?

EDIT: oh and lol @ thedude. a few, not THAT many. I'm not a wh0re you know :D
 
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888 said:
mmm if you tell her 3 of your actual wishes, you'll be playing into her frame, which is that she is the prize, and that she has the power to fulfill your "wishes" or to deny them.

What I would do is to wish for the excact opposite of what she would expect you to wish for, something which sets the frame that SHE will be pursuing YOU, that you are ABOVE her petty tricks. Something like "cook me dinner," "buy me presents," or "do my homework."

If you say anything REMOTELY sexual or date related, she'll know she has power over you, and you'll be putting her on a pedestal.
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Case closed right here! Couldn't have said it better.

I wish I woulda knew this sh*t at 16. I wish to be successful in the music biz. I wish that my family still loves me after I make millions.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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