Wise Up-men And Women Are Not That Different

[NickBe]

See as I said no intelligent conversation to be had with you.

what's the point of having freedom if it doesn't make you happy?

Freedom is power and it makes my life easy. I can enjoy it in my own way. It allows me access to more women, better women.

well you're changing your tune. So now you do have some emotions? just good ones, and you've learnt to control the bad ones (depression)? like i've been saying I support all along, you mean?

I don't see anywhere in the previous post that said I have emotions or that I learned to control them. You are grasping, I said I do not have the bad emotions I did not say I have the good ones though. Stop assuming it makes you look like an idiot.

what's the point of money if not to bring you happiness?

If you even have to ask you will never make any money. Money is power and it makes me content. It give me access to thing most would not have. It feeds my desires, yes I have desires I want fulfilled.

well you certainly have desires, don't you? most of which I would class as egomaniacal. Am I not allowed to have my own desires too, without being called weak or stupid? Also, again, what's the point of friends if they don't bring joy to your life?

You started the whole 'weak' thing by calling me inferior. You assume you are superior to me because you cry when a woman leaves you. Emotions are humanities weakness.

oh right? so you do have emotions? just different ones to me [blind, baseless statement]; or do you in fact not, as you stated so adamantly in a previous post? I'm confused.

I do not expect you to understand how my mind works. I did not say I have different emotions to you I said I experience things differently. I am driven to fulfill my desires and when I do fulfill them I feel content. That is what a sociopath does. It is like a serial killer having the undesirable urge to kill. However with me its not murder its sex, money and power. I want those things

I simply just do not feel emotions like you do. I have the need to fulfill all my desires. To be blunt I would be classed as a sociopath, I do not like that label but thats what I would be called. Like Tony Soprano if you are familiar with the show his Tony Soprano is a sociopath. He has no real emotion...

 

[blueguy]

Psssssst.... NickBe.

You're reacting.

You're wasting both your time and energy because you care what he thinks as a result of your emotion.

 

[NickBe]

I am having a conversation and I am not wasting time. On weekdays I have absolutely nothing to do so I can sit here a humor people like him. It is either this or masturbate since just about every woman I know is at work right now.

I have no job, I work for myself maybe one day per week if that. I have no friends that are around at this time. It is just after midday everybody is at work. I am not wasting anything, this is what I do when I have noting else to do. I post on forums.

Do not mistake a conversation which I hoped would be an intelligent conversation for emotion.

I always like to see how people tick..

 

[The Juan and only]

I'm quite enjoying this debate actually.

Food for thought though,

nickbe, what then, is the point of living? what would you say is your purpose or goal in life?

is it wealth and power? (which i suspect it is)
If so, why?

because that's what you want, maybe? well i want to experience a loving relationship, as I suspect you might also.

p.s I never said you were inferior until you directly questioned me. In fact all I said was that I felt sorry for you.

 

[The Juan and only]

I can sit here a humor people like him

Is there really any need for that? all i've been doing is giving my opinions here, and you do nothing but attack me. You said you can control people. but I think that's a lie. I think you can't even control yourself.

I can tell you like to feel superior, in control, and enjoy putting other people down to help your hurt ego, because you aren't happy within yourself. Fine. Just admit it for christs sake.

 

[NickBe]

Yes my purpose is wealth, power, sex. As to why i can not really answer, I desire sex, wealth and power and when I get it I want more.

I don't want a loving relationship, I am unable to love. That could be my greatest strength or my greatest weakness. I believe shrinks call it 'Incapacity for Love' it is common amongst sociopaths. Like I said though i do not really consider myself a sociopath, I do not like that label but to illustrate the point I use it. Do not mistake your desires with mine.

I just want money and power, it is not rational. One thing remains constant though, I do not feel what others feel. Call me a sociopath, a narcissist a bastard whatever makes you comfortable. It wont change the fact...

Added: I do not think saying that I am humoring you is attacking you..... not sure why you get that impression. I did however call you unintelligent because you persist in trying to rationalize me. You make excuses for me saying I really want love but do not admit it to myself. It shows me you do not understand.

 

[The Juan and only]

ok, I'm starting to sound like a ****.

We both have our views. let's respect each other's. debate over i'd say.

 

[The Juan and only]

Even so, no reason to call me stupid.

And my rationale for that was thus: I have been in love, and i have not been in love. You have only experienced the latter, thus I felt in a better position to judge.

and furthermore "felt sorry for you" if you really cannot love anybody, because in my opinion you're missing out. That is all.

 

[NickBe]

No reason to call me inferior which you did a few posts ago.

Anyway there is no point going on with this as you simply do no understand.

Inability to love can be a great strength too but as I said you will never understand.

 

[The Juan and only]

See it is not about views, I am what I am. You just try to rationalize it because you do not understand what I am.

no, I simply find it hard to believe because I have never in my life come across a person without emotions. Also, your posts indicated emotional states that I would expect from anyone else. But fine, I believe you. maybe i'll never understand. let's leave it at that.

 

[NickBe]

Yes I display emotional states but it is all fake, that is what I mean when I talk about adapting. I need to fake my emotions, that is why I can befriend anybody because I am a blank slate. When I meet somebody I adapt to that person. Psychologist call it superficial charm....

It is a difficult thing to explain.

I can assure you that in your life you have come across a sociopath before. You would just never know it because they put you at ease and make you think they are completely normal. You might have some very close friends with sociopathic tendencies but you wouldn't know.

 

[reset]

let's leave it at that.

Good call.

 

[L777]

It has nothing to do with being Alpha, you misinterpret. I do not feel anything for woman I sleep with or any other people. It is not a mindset I developed out of insecurity it is just what I am.

See when I sleep with a woman I like it because its a release. However to me the woman is empty she is just a tool I use to get off. It is not as if I chose this but it is not as if I want to be anyone else either.

Lets say for example I have been sleeping with a girl for a month and one day I hear she was hit by a car and died. I wouldn't care, I guess some people would call me soulless or narcissistic. I call it evolution and I do not expect people with emotions to understand.

Lol so you have no emotions? You do realise that having no emotion means that - by definition - you will never be happy. But tbh with you pal, I just don't buy it, even the most guarded and composed humans have emotions...unless you were brain damaged into not having any, which I doubt.

I would suggest you grow up, stop cultivating this ridiculous image of some soulless gigolo, and learn to love life....cos thats why we're all here really, thats the goal od DJ-ism, to be happy. Emotion doesn't make you weak, not being able to control negative emotion makes you weak, which is something I have no problem with, so I have the best of both worlds, whereas you (by your own implication) will never be in love, or have any real friends etc etc. It probably means you're not that good in bed as well, as women respond not so much to sexual techniques themselves, but to the passion and feeling behind them....you are basically a walking, talking dildo to them, and most women would take a guy who actually feels something and can make them feel something over someone like you ANY day.

And I strongly object to the notion that you are somehow better ("more evolved") than anyone else. If you think about it logically, men with no emotion would die out quickly, as he would feel no attachment to any potential mothers, an so would probably not choose to become a father. If he did become a father, he would have no attachment to his offspring, thus meaning less protection and nuturing, thus less chance of survival and further reproduction. Your theory is misguided at best....seriously, just get off your high horse, you ain't better than anyone else.

 

[PersonalJesus]

Yeah dude, honestly, nobody's going to think of you as "weak" if you show any positive emotion.

You want to cultivate that.

I think you're just putting up a facade. Don't worry, you'll grow out of it, I did too. I wanted to be machavelli himself.

 

[Master Bates]

Lets say for example I have been sleeping with a girl for a month and one day I hear she was hit by a car and died. I wouldn't care, I guess some people would call me soulless or narcissistic. I call it evolution and I do not expect people with emotions to understand.

You're living in delusion. You're unable to connect with other people like a normal human being and you think of yourself as some sort of superior, evolved person? Get real, doofus.

 

[The Juan and only]

Lol so you have no emotions? You do realise that having no emotion means that - by definition - you will never be happy. But tbh with you pal, I just don't buy it, even the most guarded and composed humans have emotions...unless you were brain damaged into not having any, which I doubt.

I would suggest you grow up, stop cultivating this ridiculous image of some soulless gigolo, and learn to love life....cos thats why we're all here really, thats the goal od DJ-ism, to be happy. Emotion doesn't make you weak, not being able to control negative emotion makes you weak, which is something I have no problem with, so I have the best of both worlds, whereas you (by your own implication) will never be in love, or have any real friends etc etc. It probably means you're not that good in bed as well, as women respond not so much to sexual techniques themselves, but to the passion and feeling behind them....you are basically a walking, talking dildo to them, and most women would take a guy who actually feels something and can make them feel something over someone like you ANY day.

And I strongly object to the notion that you are somehow better ("more evolved") than anyone else. If you think about it logically, men with no emotion would die out quickly, as he would feel no attachment to any potential mothers, an so would probably not choose to become a father. If he did become a father, he would have no attachment to his offspring, thus meaning less protection and nuturing, thus less chance of survival and further reproduction. Your theory is misguided at best....seriously, just get off your high horse, you ain't better than anyone else.

That's precisely what I was trying to say. Cheers mate. I find you're generally on the ball anyway.

 

[Interceptor]

You're living in delusion. You're unable to connect with other people like a normal human being and you think of yourself as some sort of superior, evolved person? Get real, doofus.