"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wise idea to go through the DJ bootcamp risking your reputation?

Solarium

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So I go to this school that has about 1200 people. It's on an island with black people, and I don't hit on black people. That limits my targets to about 600 girls, maybe 300 single girls, perhaps 25 HB5+ girls (this is an ugly school). I'm on week 4 of the DJ boot camp, where I need to get 10 rejections. I'm hesitant on this because words spread around this island fast, and if I appear too desperate (even though I'm actually just training) people will notice. I got a good rep so far with the girls, playing it aloof and C/F for about 4 months. I can definately tell that my image got me noticed since I'm the only one who says hi to everyone and hugs every girl I come across, and I get much better reactions from them during parties than I would otherwise in a club or bar where I'm a stranger. Would it be wise to go through all the parts of the DJ bootcamp anyway, or would it be better just to skip certain parts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whoah. An island of black people.

Yes, I would get 2 rejections if I were you. But rejections really aren't as emberassing as you think.

Has any girl ever come to you, upset, and complained that some guy asked for her #? I've never heard such a complaint.
 

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Obsidian said:
get your rejections from non-students
That's the problem. We hardly ever go outside of our school once our semester starts. The only non-students here are professors and locals, and neither of those 2 I want to hit on. It's not only the problem of finding rejections, is the problem that you will hit on so many people that you will be labeled as a player.
 

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yeah, so don't do it. F*cking walk off campus and find some girlz. Don't be lazy about it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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