"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wise idea to go through the DJ bootcamp risking your reputation?

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So I go to this school that has about 1200 people. It's on an island with black people, and I don't hit on black people. That limits my targets to about 600 girls, maybe 300 single girls, perhaps 25 HB5+ girls (this is an ugly school). I'm on week 4 of the DJ boot camp, where I need to get 10 rejections. I'm hesitant on this because words spread around this island fast, and if I appear too desperate (even though I'm actually just training) people will notice. I got a good rep so far with the girls, playing it aloof and C/F for about 4 months. I can definately tell that my image got me noticed since I'm the only one who says hi to everyone and hugs every girl I come across, and I get much better reactions from them during parties than I would otherwise in a club or bar where I'm a stranger. Would it be wise to go through all the parts of the DJ bootcamp anyway, or would it be better just to skip certain parts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Whoah. An island of black people.

Yes, I would get 2 rejections if I were you. But rejections really aren't as emberassing as you think.

Has any girl ever come to you, upset, and complained that some guy asked for her #? I've never heard such a complaint.
 

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Obsidian said:
get your rejections from non-students
That's the problem. We hardly ever go outside of our school once our semester starts. The only non-students here are professors and locals, and neither of those 2 I want to hit on. It's not only the problem of finding rejections, is the problem that you will hit on so many people that you will be labeled as a player.
 

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yeah, so don't do it. F*cking walk off campus and find some girlz. Don't be lazy about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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