Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
it aint always that easy...
hey man,....you are scaring the **** outta me!!!Originally posted by quest
it aint always that easy...
mine were growing impacted, but for the best part, unexposed..
they had to cut all of my gums open, and drag the bastards out of there.. BUT if i didn't do it... i'd have some really really messed up teeth (they aren't great now).. i had to have 4 sets of stitches in my gums and i couldn't really brush my teeth for about a week, and could barely eat for a few days..
BUT i did get jelly and ice cream at the hospital
Same with me, they were impacted in the jaw. I had to have them extracted before I got braces when I was about 14 or 15. Oral surgery, put under, the whole works.Originally posted by quest
it aint always that easy...
mine were growing impacted, but for the best part, unexposed..
they had to cut all of my gums open, and drag the bastards out of there.. BUT if i didn't do it... i'd have some really really messed up teeth (they aren't great now).. i had to have 4 sets of stitches in my gums and i couldn't really brush my teeth for about a week, and could barely eat for a few days..
BUT i did get jelly and ice cream at the hospital
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
**** THAT!
Same here. I got them all taken out at once when I was about 15. I got to stay home from school for a couple days, but it wasn't worth it. I could barely eat. I couldn't touch my top and bottom teeth together for a few days, and I looked like a chipmunk.Originally posted by quest
it aint always that easy...
mine were growing impacted, but for the best part, unexposed..
they had to cut all of my gums open, and drag the bastards out of there.. BUT if i didn't do it... i'd have some really really messed up teeth (they aren't great now).. i had to have 4 sets of stitches in my gums and i couldn't really brush my teeth for about a week, and could barely eat for a few days..
BUT i did get jelly and ice cream at the hospital
aslong as i keep brushing them !