"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wisdom of Confucius....apply it to your DJ lives.

Warrior74

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Do not wish for quick results, nor look for small advantages.
If you seek quick results, you will not reach the ultimate
goal. If you are led astray by small advantages, you will
never accomplish great things.



I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I
understand.



When you know a thing, to hold that you know it; and when you
do not know a thing, to allow that you do not know it - this is
knowledge.



It does not matter how slowly you go so long as you do not
stop.


Men's natures are alike, it is their habits that carry them far
apart.



What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man
seeks is in others.


Have no friends not equal to yourself.

Just a few things in my readings that stood out as applied to being a DJ and to life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nice effort, Warrior.
Not sure that it will be well received here though.
But it's good to see someone want have higher standards,and reach greater things, AND....want the same for his fellow brothers.

Nice change of pace around here, Warrior. Keep it up.
Thanks.
 

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Interceptor said:
Not sure that it will be well received here though.
Your right, probably not enough boy scouts. lol j/k I just wanted to use that word following a post of yours Interceptor.

I don't see why it wouldn't be well received here though, when your similar posts usually are. Maybe it would be more apt in the tips section.
 

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Hey guys. Thanks. I've been in a contemplative mood lately. I'm looking at my life critically, and I know I need to do better. These things stood out to me. Maybe I should have posted this in the tips section.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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