"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wisdom of Confucius....apply it to your DJ lives.

Warrior74

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Do not wish for quick results, nor look for small advantages.
If you seek quick results, you will not reach the ultimate
goal. If you are led astray by small advantages, you will
never accomplish great things.



I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I
understand.



When you know a thing, to hold that you know it; and when you
do not know a thing, to allow that you do not know it - this is
knowledge.



It does not matter how slowly you go so long as you do not
stop.


Men's natures are alike, it is their habits that carry them far
apart.



What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man
seeks is in others.


Have no friends not equal to yourself.

Just a few things in my readings that stood out as applied to being a DJ and to life.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nice effort, Warrior.
Not sure that it will be well received here though.
But it's good to see someone want have higher standards,and reach greater things, AND....want the same for his fellow brothers.

Nice change of pace around here, Warrior. Keep it up.
Thanks.
 

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Interceptor said:
Not sure that it will be well received here though.
Your right, probably not enough boy scouts. lol j/k I just wanted to use that word following a post of yours Interceptor.

I don't see why it wouldn't be well received here though, when your similar posts usually are. Maybe it would be more apt in the tips section.
 

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Hey guys. Thanks. I've been in a contemplative mood lately. I'm looking at my life critically, and I know I need to do better. These things stood out to me. Maybe I should have posted this in the tips section.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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