Major_Major
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Well I'm doing a new post for this just to get everything right because I can't seem to get the title changed. But here you can see my posts up till now.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WIPFR - Time to Seal the Deal
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Old Post #1...Alright guys, I'm coming to the experts with this question. I've seen this one girl a couple times and its time for sex. I know because I blew it once already but we won't get into me missing the obvious signal(always looking forward never back). Basically I'm meeting her at a bar this week by her place. She brings a friend or two because she's been going for a while. Basically I'm think of just telling her while we are dancing up on each other that I will meet her back at her place. Seems good to me would just like some input.
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Old Post #2...Yeah I'll be sure to keep you guys posted on what's going on. Let me let you know how I made a small blunder but didn't let it get me down.
Basically on St. Patrick's day I ended up hanging out with this chick and some of her friends at a hookah bar. Had a blast all night but I didn't drink alot because I drove. Well when everyone went their serprate ways I drove her home. We made out in the driveway and she had asked if I was alright to drive home...here it comes...me in my infinite wisdom said yeah I'm fine I didn't drink too much at all. Well I thought nothing of it until about 5 minutes later while driving down the highway, and all those gears finally clicked.
Basically I was just seeing what peoples thoughts on this plan of action were.
BTW what does the FR stand for? (Field Report, got that already)
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Old Post #2...Yeah I'll be sure to keep you guys posted on what's going on. Let me let you know how I made a small blunder but didn't let it get me down.
Basically on St. Patrick's day I ended up hanging out with this chick and some of her friends at a hookah bar. Had a blast all night but I didn't drink alot because I drove. Well when everyone went their serprate ways I drove her home. We made out in the driveway and she had asked if I was alright to drive home...here it comes...me in my infinite wisdom said yeah I'm fine I didn't drink too much at all. Well I thought nothing of it until about 5 minutes later while driving down the highway, and all those gears finally clicked.
Basically I was just seeing what peoples thoughts on this plan of action were.
BTW what does the FR stand for? (Field Report, got that already)
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Good job! Now all you have to do is update it, and it's all in one thread, and you can see the progression. 
Major_Major
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Alright gents, here is an update. Not the intended outcome last night but I'm not really complaining, my fault though.
So I met this chick at that bar around 11:30pm (working a second job @ B&N, great place to work on your skills BTW). So I grab myself a drink and go with her to the dance floor. There is a live band that plays but they were in between sets, so we just ended up dancing to the club music they were playing. After that the band comes back out and we rock out to them, the whole time I'm behind her and she makes sure to keep my hands wrapped around her waist.
We make out during the sets and at the end of the night I go outside and walk her over to her car. Well I blow it here because I don't ask anything like originally planned. I'm not beating myself up over it though.
I'll keep the updates coming, probably sometime early next week.
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So I met this chick at that bar around 11:30pm (working a second job @ B&N, great place to work on your skills BTW). So I grab myself a drink and go with her to the dance floor. There is a live band that plays but they were in between sets, so we just ended up dancing to the club music they were playing. After that the band comes back out and we rock out to them, the whole time I'm behind her and she makes sure to keep my hands wrapped around her waist.
We make out during the sets and at the end of the night I go outside and walk her over to her car. Well I blow it here because I don't ask anything like originally planned. I'm not beating myself up over it though.
I'll keep the updates coming, probably sometime early next week.
Major
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Keep it going! Good job.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Next update...So I probably won't see this girl to next wednesday. I got a chance to see her tonight for a 2.5 hour (20 minute drive) then she is kicking me out @ 11ish. We'll see what happens but she seemed like she was trying to dissuade me somewhat, I wasn't going to go sarging tonight so I'm going to pursue this. I'll post an update, if I'm lucky it will be sometime tomorrow but I have this gut feeling it will be tonight.
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Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Sounds like you need to drop some LFRQ's on her
that is, after you establish that your a PASG
that is, after you establish that your a PASG
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So many acronyms...what do both of those mean.
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Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Dude did you read the DJB?
It's all in there
check under the LFPQ section
It's all in there
check under the LFPQ section
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Man, even I don't know what those mean, nor do I have the time to look.