Major_Major
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Well I'm doing a new post for this just to get everything right because I can't seem to get the title changed. But here you can see my posts up till now.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
WIPFR - Time to Seal the Deal
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Old Post #1...Alright guys, I'm coming to the experts with this question. I've seen this one girl a couple times and its time for sex. I know because I blew it once already but we won't get into me missing the obvious signal(always looking forward never back). Basically I'm meeting her at a bar this week by her place. She brings a friend or two because she's been going for a while. Basically I'm think of just telling her while we are dancing up on each other that I will meet her back at her place. Seems good to me would just like some input.
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Old Post #2...Yeah I'll be sure to keep you guys posted on what's going on. Let me let you know how I made a small blunder but didn't let it get me down.
Basically on St. Patrick's day I ended up hanging out with this chick and some of her friends at a hookah bar. Had a blast all night but I didn't drink alot because I drove. Well when everyone went their serprate ways I drove her home. We made out in the driveway and she had asked if I was alright to drive home...here it comes...me in my infinite wisdom said yeah I'm fine I didn't drink too much at all. Well I thought nothing of it until about 5 minutes later while driving down the highway, and all those gears finally clicked.
Basically I was just seeing what peoples thoughts on this plan of action were.
BTW what does the FR stand for? (Field Report, got that already)
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Old Post #2...Yeah I'll be sure to keep you guys posted on what's going on. Let me let you know how I made a small blunder but didn't let it get me down.
Basically on St. Patrick's day I ended up hanging out with this chick and some of her friends at a hookah bar. Had a blast all night but I didn't drink alot because I drove. Well when everyone went their serprate ways I drove her home. We made out in the driveway and she had asked if I was alright to drive home...here it comes...me in my infinite wisdom said yeah I'm fine I didn't drink too much at all. Well I thought nothing of it until about 5 minutes later while driving down the highway, and all those gears finally clicked.
Basically I was just seeing what peoples thoughts on this plan of action were.
BTW what does the FR stand for? (Field Report, got that already)
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Good job! Now all you have to do is update it, and it's all in one thread, and you can see the progression. 
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Alright gents, here is an update. Not the intended outcome last night but I'm not really complaining, my fault though.
So I met this chick at that bar around 11:30pm (working a second job @ B&N, great place to work on your skills BTW). So I grab myself a drink and go with her to the dance floor. There is a live band that plays but they were in between sets, so we just ended up dancing to the club music they were playing. After that the band comes back out and we rock out to them, the whole time I'm behind her and she makes sure to keep my hands wrapped around her waist.
We make out during the sets and at the end of the night I go outside and walk her over to her car. Well I blow it here because I don't ask anything like originally planned. I'm not beating myself up over it though.
I'll keep the updates coming, probably sometime early next week.
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So I met this chick at that bar around 11:30pm (working a second job @ B&N, great place to work on your skills BTW). So I grab myself a drink and go with her to the dance floor. There is a live band that plays but they were in between sets, so we just ended up dancing to the club music they were playing. After that the band comes back out and we rock out to them, the whole time I'm behind her and she makes sure to keep my hands wrapped around her waist.
We make out during the sets and at the end of the night I go outside and walk her over to her car. Well I blow it here because I don't ask anything like originally planned. I'm not beating myself up over it though.
I'll keep the updates coming, probably sometime early next week.
Major
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Keep it going! Good job.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Next update...So I probably won't see this girl to next wednesday. I got a chance to see her tonight for a 2.5 hour (20 minute drive) then she is kicking me out @ 11ish. We'll see what happens but she seemed like she was trying to dissuade me somewhat, I wasn't going to go sarging tonight so I'm going to pursue this. I'll post an update, if I'm lucky it will be sometime tomorrow but I have this gut feeling it will be tonight.
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Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Sounds like you need to drop some LFRQ's on her
that is, after you establish that your a PASG
that is, after you establish that your a PASG
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So many acronyms...what do both of those mean.
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Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Dude did you read the DJB?
It's all in there
check under the LFPQ section
It's all in there
check under the LFPQ section
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Man, even I don't know what those mean, nor do I have the time to look.