Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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WIPFR: St Patty Day

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Really, tonight was a suck out. Obtained one kiss close w. tounge before the name (actually, I only spoke a few words to her after the fact because she was looking for her friend and crap)

Anyways, I think her name is Emily, judging by her friend that lost her purse and mentioned her name,...and she took my number and she'd get Emily to call me sometime, and they'd be out next weekend.

Mmk, I'll give this a week and consider it cold. The best chance I got of laying this chick is via re-established rapport, ie: I run back into her next weekend.

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On that note, the other suck outs, I need a wing man bad, I was in with this one chick, and she talks to her friend nearby, and she gives the no, and I'm instanty denied. Ugh,

At least I got something out of tonight :), I'll keep this a WIP for a week and I'll consider it cold. :cry:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd offer to wing with you, but my solo game is rusty and I've never actually gone sarging with someone who knew what they were doing, so I'd probably not be a terribly good wing. I can probably still be useful to defuse obstacles, I guess.

Edit: just to be clearer.. my middle-game is pretty good, but my opening is still pretty bad... closing is all right, but could use a lot of improvement.
 

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I don't know what I'm doing either. Clubbing is a relatively new ground for me, and the biggest thing I have to overcome was dancing. I used to have no real...vibe, and when I was dragged to Stages after my birthday, I wasn't able to dance with a girl, let alone approach. I didn't know how.

So, I'm learning. All of my potential wings were occupied with other girls, and I was solo, but I kept getting screwed from the chick's friend. I need a wing to distract the biatch just long enough so that I can get a vibe dancing and what have you with the targets.


Still yet to F-Close from the club, but kiss progression, it's getting good.

Thanks for the offer, we'll have to hit a pub or something to get to know each other sometime :D
 

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At least you have somewhere to bring the women to. I live in the shacks and sex is a big no-no (not stricly enforced, but sometimes people are pricks) so bringing women home is a stretch.

By the way, I'm not that big on club approaches, mostly because I'm not that big on clubbing, but I generally "just do it" if I have someone expecting me to perform. Guess that's why I don't approach all that much when I'm by my lonesome.

Anyway, good idea on the pub thing. Let's try and seduce the waitresses into giving us free drinks! (Funny story about Starbucks and cake, too... remind me to tell you about it sometime)
 

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Who says you have to bring her to the shacks. It's a nono on course too, what happens? The girl brings THEM back to HER place. Can't go wrong with that, lol.

I go clubbing...about once, twice a month, it depends on what the group plans, as we all hit the club and split off as we deem fit. It's cooler that way, because we prime together, have a assload of a good time, then we hit the club and do our own thing, or we support each other, get each other going with PU

Do you know how much my night cost? $10 worth of alcohol and...$13 in cab. :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My friends aren't big on picking up. Well, at least, not the kind of PU we know about. Sounds like you guys have a good group dynamic going on, though.

Anyway, I have to get out of the computer lab now. Hit me on MSN or something, sometime.
 

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My friends don't know about my pickup either, but they are solid nonetheless. I do my own little thing for the most part, so meh :D.
 

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Docs I will be your wingman :p for about a week this summer time :D Haha you will definetly get laid!!! I just need to borrow my cousins id for that week :p

Smoke
 

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That'd be fvcking right on. Simple rules to live by!
No Busses, No Train Wrecks, and Use Safety Equipment Provided!

It's balls, they want to go home, or their friends, and I'm either too slow to act quick on stopping it, or it just...bah! Gimme cheap slvts!
 

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Try apporaching them on a different angle
Go up to them, **** by them and ***** at a bartender about how ****ty your day was, slam a few back, "Accedently" fall off your chair, slam a few more a **** off lol

Nice attention grabber :p

Smoke
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My approach is fine. The focus is dancing/grinding (which I was severely lacking in). Hence, the past clubbing FRs were all 'I started dancing..' and oh boy, we got a story!

It's now my lack of a F-close (I'm also number stupid for some odd reason), and negating stupid events such as friends and boyfriends.

Welcome to WIPs.
 
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