"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WIPFR: Food Store Girl

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Docs said:
Because I have a real life that revolves around a err...16 hour workday every day?

I don't have the time to fully sarge, hell, I don't even have enough time to shut down and recover. The reason why it was a WIP is because I expected to update because I figured I'd see her again. Guess not, meh.

:), over-busy me.

you work 16 hours a day? are u an investment banker? lol

if u have time to be playful for 5 minutes with a store girl, then i bet you have time to get her #, call her, and fcuk her - also can all take 5 minutes ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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absolut honesty said:
you work 16 hours a day? are u an investment banker? lol

if u have time to be playful for 5 minutes with a store girl, then i bet you have time to get her #, call her, and fcuk her - also can all take 5 minutes ;)
No....its just the way I work. Crazy money though. On salary, and the other job (making for that long day) is under the table. I essentially make about 150-180% of what I'm supposed to in a given day.

You're right though, if I have 5 minutes to be playful, I can close the girl. Thing is, I haven't seen this girl since. It's kind of hard to close a girl you never see because your own life is completely insane.

:)
 
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