Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Winnipeg Manitoba Canada!!!

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skinnydart

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Hey, how old do you have to be to drink up there? I live a couple hours from Winnepeg (in ND, USA). I'm 20, so I can't go to clubs/bars in the US, so I'm thinking of going up there and chill'n, plus it's the closest big city.
 

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Hey man, I'm surprised to see someone else from Winnipeg. Good Stuff! Let me know what you had in mind.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jvd

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I am from Winnipeg too, I would definitely be interested in hanging out with other like minded wingmen. Most of my friends that I usually hang out with are too scared to try wingmen techniques, it's nice to see other men who are looking for success.

I can offer some advice to others, and I am also looking for ways to improve too! I am also down with hanging with ND people too, I will let you know which clubs to go to. Send me message and we chat on MSN to get things going. This is going to be crazy summer!
 

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So far I been able to group up 5-7 guys (some novices, some experts) are planning to meet up.

Probably 1-3 Saturday's (July 21 or 28 or August 4) from now we are planning to meet up at a lounge and get to know each other a bit and after go to the club to get things going. :yes:

For the guys who are interested in joining us, send me a message with your MSN email, or I can give you mine, and I give will you more details about the meet!
 

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We actually had a our first meet on Saturday (July 28), we had 5 guys come out, and had a blast ! There was a couple funny sarging incidents too :yes: Our next meet will be probably on August 11.

For the guys who are interested in joining us, send me a message with your MSN email, or I can give you mine, and I give will you more details about the next meet!
 

jt the azn

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Hey all Winnipeg wingmen, we actually met up with other Winnipeg wingmen and it was a blast! Please do try to actually come to these meetings as we try to expand our social circle of DJs and PUAs. I actually met jvd and he seemed to be a pretty cool guy. If you want to get in touch, pm me.
 

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I got another meet planned for this weekend (August 11), send me a message with your email, or I can give you mine, and I give will you more details about the next meet!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I got something planned for Saturday night (August 18), if you interested in sarging, send me a message for details!
 

jt the azn

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Calling all Winnipeg wingmen! pm me if interested. better if youre a teen in st james
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jvd

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***UPDATE

I got another meet planned for this weekend (November 3), send me a message with your email, or I can give you mine, and I give will you more details about the next meet!
 

sexy_kuta

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Holyl **** Im From Winnipeg!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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