"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

winks on fb

pyros

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 31, 2011
Messages
1,699
Reaction score
206
So, do you have any success sending winks to girl you find hot on FB?

I don't. Almost zero girls reply to my wink...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

RangerMIke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 23, 2014
Messages
4,763
Reaction score
7,979
Location
USA, Louisiana
Since I don't have a clue what you are talking about... my guess is at best.... this is something you do not need to get women. If you don't need it, why do it.

I know I'm going to regret this but what the fvck is a facebook wink?
 

Yewki

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2013
Messages
1,504
Reaction score
589
Seems like pretty weak behavior to "wink" at a girl online for attention. Could work, but you're better off messaging her... or better yet confronting in person.

I didn't even know winking was a thing on FB
 

SeymourCake

Banned
Joined
Apr 9, 2010
Messages
1,523
Reaction score
363
Never send emoticons/emojis. It makes you look foolish.

If you want to wink at a girl, then do it in person as you tell her something sarcastic. Be sure to nonchalantly smile as you do it so she does not see it as a threat.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top