"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How many of you guys wink when you meet eyes with a girl that you are interested in?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Winking went out in the 1960s. Only dirty old men do that now.
 

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I was introduced to a new client a few weeks ago and she winked at me as we shook hands.
 

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Blackmm said:
Winking went out in the 1960s. Only dirty old men do that now.
Sailors too especially those with a anchor on their arm.

pdx1138 said:
I was introduced to a new client a few weeks ago and she winked at me as we shook hands.
Does your work place is close to the port?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Does your work place is close to the port?"

17 blocks away LOL
 

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Ok now seriously, no more jokes about sailors and their tatoo.

Its hard to say what winking suggest and if it works, actually it doesnt depend only from the receiver but also from the performers.
Check this two following images:

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Potx4fnuRaU/TOKPIwA3VuI/AAAAAAAAMb4/E8gIJRbBMFA/s1600/winking%2Bgirl2.JPG
This winking means, your life in getting better really soon if you play your cards well.

http://img.ezinemark.com/imagemanager2/files/30000560/2010/09/2010-09-14-10-14-04-8-prime-minister-vladimir-putin-is-winking.jpeg
This winking means that your life is getting shorter if you piss him off.

Does the same action has the same meaning?
 

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I've had several girls wink at me in recent months.
For a girl, it strikes me as being a little overly flirtateous or forward.
 

I'm in the Mood

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What's this talk about a girl being repulsed if you wink at her? Would YOU be repulsed if a girl winked at you?
 

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pdx1138 said:
I was introduced to a new client a few weeks ago and she winked at me as we shook hands.
this.

i only wink to my friend when im drunk and the cop is asking who is driving tonite(happens quite a lot to me)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls can wink. Guys make it look pervy.
 

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