"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Winking
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Its hard to say what winking suggest and if it works, actually it doesnt depend only from the receiver but also from the performers.
Check this two following images:
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Potx4fnuRaU/TOKPIwA3VuI/AAAAAAAAMb4/E8gIJRbBMFA/s1600/winking%2Bgirl2.JPG
This winking means, your life in getting better really soon if you play your cards well.
http://img.ezinemark.com/imagemanager2/files/30000560/2010/09/2010-09-14-10-14-04-8-prime-minister-vladimir-putin-is-winking.jpeg
This winking means that your life is getting shorter if you piss him off.
Does the same action has the same meaning?
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
this.pdx1138 said:
i only wink to my friend when im drunk and the cop is asking who is driving tonite(happens quite a lot to me)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
At 42 you are a dirty old man in America. Pervert!Blackmm said:
http://www.loveme.com/tour/photos/Odessa_tour_women_03-2007/Odessa_tour_women_03-2007_17.jpg
In Ukraine, we spit at the words "Dirty Old Men" and "Creepy". Have fun waving that flag in America!
Seriously, I read these posts and am shocked. If any of you are really older than 22 years of age you should be listening to me.